What things bother you about ESFJs? How can they avoid pissing you off lol? How can they really communicate and convince you when you're being cold or are in the wrong?
My ESFJ brother is having ongoing conflicts with his ISTJ roommate. Idk how she sees him but from what I've personally witnessed she doesn't seem interested in knowing him at all or treating him like he's capable of doing anything right. Perhaps she is a cold and unhealthy ISTJ. My brother is a good guy, very prone to insecurity so I'm trying to give him good advice to remedy the situation.