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This is a discussion on have patience. within the ISTJ Forum - The Duty Fulfillers forums, part of the SJ's Temperament Forum- The Overseers category; my sister is coming to visit from school and she is going to try to give me some reforming plans ...

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    have patience.

    my sister is coming to visit from school and she is going to try to give me some reforming plans for my life... i am so thankful for this however I have a hard time adapting to future things. lol

    but alas... she is my sister and loves me.

    anyone on here ever try to help people or reform them...
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    ESTP - The Doers

    All of the time... I love dating broken people so I can "fix" them. Part of that is the attraction for me.

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    ISTJ - The Duty Fulfillers

    I have tried (with varying degrees of success) to "reform" or "positively influence" others. However, I find that while the way to reform may well be perfectly clear to me, getting others to share my conviction on a matter is rather difficult!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Marcus2x2 View Post
    I have tried (with varying degrees of success) to "reform" or "positively influence" others. However, I find that while the way to reform may well be perfectly clear to me, getting others to share my conviction on a matter is rather difficult!
    My sister and I went through this today.

    she was telling me about the law of attraction and how I can apply it in my life to benefit myself just as she did...

    I using Fe could just feel how happy she was about this but when it comes to ther peoples creative self-help guides it is hard for me to follow, I got skeptical and I think she saw that, and felt a little sad for me...

    I can tell she is really happy though, so it musn't be that bad of a system.

    but yeah. basically what you just said.

    however. I love my ISTJ sister...
    I wouldn't want her any other way.
    she is positive and just a wonderful person in my life.
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    ENFP - The Inspirers

    Yes ISTJ's are really good at trying to "mold" you into something else, but often get misguided when making distinctions between what is "broken" and what is just innate and not harmful. Sometimes what they percieve as weakness is just foreign to them and they dont want to understand it.


     

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