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This is a discussion on ISTP Guy Flirts then Ignores Me? within the ISTP Forum - The Mechanics forums, part of the SP's Temperament Forum- The Creators category; Originally Posted by lizw47 Him and I worked together today. He keeps doing this annoying thing where he REFUSES to ...

  1. #21
    ISTP

    Quote Originally Posted by lizw47 View Post
    Him and I worked together today.

    He keeps doing this annoying thing where he REFUSES to look me in the eye. BUT, I constantly catch him looking over at me, and as soon as I look back at him, he quickly turns his head away. LOL. I've caught him doing this at least a dozen times. But he won't look at me while he is speaking?!

    I just need to add... he definitely has the male equivalent of Resting Bitch Face lol. He is constantly walking around looking like he's in a pissy mood. He's so hard to read! I can't tell if he is actually angry at me or what!

    Okay so today me and another coworker (let's call her M) were cleaning a part of our facility together. Her and I have recently become quite close. Also, she is very good friends with ISTP guy. We were chatting enthusiastically, when suddenly ISTP guy comes rushing in.

    ISTP: "Hey Liz, (our manager) needs you to head back to (different area of our facility.)"
    Me: (being flirty) "(ISTP), M and I were in the middle of a really good conversation and you just interrupted us!"
    ISTP: "I didn't do it. (Our manager) told me to come get you. She'll get upset with you if you don't go. Hand me your cleaning supplies."
    Me: "Make me." I tease him, as I hand them to him. He takes the cleaning supplies from me. I'm looking into his eyes but he's not looking into mine.
    ISTP: "Come on, she'll get upset with me."
    Me: (I call up to M) "M, we'll finish this conversation later that (ISTP) has so rudely interrupted!" (I wave goodbye and she waves back)

    But for the rest of the day he didn't say anything to me. Just glanced at me from afar and turned away when I looked back at him... as if I wouldn't notice!
    Ugh, I hate when he doesn't talk to me. I never know where I stand with this guy.
    Based on stuff you said later in this thread he didn't know you were flirting, thought you were serious.

  2. #22
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    Okay well now it has gotten to the point where he is just straight up ignoring me. If I go up to him and say something to him he doesn’t even look me in the eyes, he just looks downward and nods until I go away, he won’t even make conversation. I’m going on vacation which he knows about and I said goodbye to him and he just looked in the opposite direction and said “see ya” without looking up at me.

    What gives?!?!?!

  3. #23

    Quote Originally Posted by lizw47 View Post
    Okay well now it has gotten to the point where he is just straight up ignoring me. If I go up to him and say something to him he doesn’t even look me in the eyes, he just looks downward and nods until I go away, he won’t even make conversation. I’m going on vacation which he knows about and I said goodbye to him and he just looked in the opposite direction and said “see ya” without looking up at me.

    What gives?!?!?!
    I'd give up. Not worth your time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lizw47 View Post
    He told me "You piss me off."
    Quote Originally Posted by lizw47 View Post
    Okay well now it has gotten to the point where he is just straight up ignoring me. If I go up to him and say something to him he doesn’t even look me in the eyes, he just looks downward and nods until I go away, he won’t even make conversation. I’m going on vacation which he knows about and I said goodbye to him and he just looked in the opposite direction and said “see ya” without looking up at me.
    Quote Originally Posted by lizw47 View Post
    What gives?!?!?!
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  6. #25

    Print out the question you have asked here and sign your name at the bottom. Put it on his table. Answers will be given to you within 3 working days.

    I'm just kidding.. Go ask him when he's alone.
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  7. #26

    Quote Originally Posted by Ziegel View Post
    Reminds me of the situation when I flirted with a specific girl like half year ago, she liked to talk w/ me etc. but once she started bragging how good it was to go to the cinema with some friend of her someday. Pointless? Nah, it's the fucking manipulation tactic of "checking if he's jealous". She was alright before, maybe she was on her period but I don't care about that. She pissed me off and I stopped contacting her because I fucking hate fucking manipulation!!!
    Replying to myself atm like some maniac lol. With the mindset I have today, I wouldn't be mad at the girl that time, that was probably a challenge from her which I didn't take - so I acted like a pussy, damn

  8. #27

    I am quite uncomfortable making eye contact, it makes me feel nervous and vulnerable, especially with a girl that I might like and not sure if she likes me back.

    I'm not likely to let you know that I like you directly, because of my fear of rejection. I'll probably be a bit flirty, try and be around you whenever I can, be interested in you, and wish for god sake you would just tell me if you like me.

    Banter is my preferred way of communicating, if I'm not having a serious conversation. If I'm not interested in you I probably wont make the effort get to know you, as idle conversation drains the life out me.

    I tend to be focused, so if I'm focused on task you'll probably feel ignored.

    I have a rich inner world of feelings that goes mostly unseen. If I like you, my heart will be pounding when I see you but you won't know it.

    I hope that helps.

  9. #28

    You could.. you know clap your hands or sing a song unexpectedly to get his attention and kindly tease him that your face is not on the floor or somewhere at the corner of the room and then say please look at you when you're talking.

    Then when he finally lifts his face up, beam up a smile at him and, "there you are!"

  10. #29

    You seem to have assumed flirting where there wasn't any and acted out accordingly which probably annoyed the crap out of him.

  11. #30

    now some girl ignores me what the fuck fuck you why


     
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