[ISTP] ISTPs who identify as LGBT, how do you show interest in the same sex?

ISTPs who identify as LGBT, how do you show interest in the same sex?

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This is a discussion on ISTPs who identify as LGBT, how do you show interest in the same sex? within the ISTP Forum - The Mechanics forums, part of the SP's Temperament Forum- The Creators category; So this is under the impression that it isn't via apps/online dating, and done in person. If you can't tell ...

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    ISTPs who identify as LGBT, how do you show interest in the same sex?

    So this is under the impression that it isn't via apps/online dating, and done in person.


    If you can't tell if someone is interested/LGBT, how do you determine it so?

    Do you come off as/do people suspect you are gay/lesbian/bi/etc. yourself?

    If you're in a non-gay venue (bar/club (would you even be found there?), how do you determine how you will act/make your move? Are you more subtle about it (if bi, or in general)? Or don't care, if you hit on someone?



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    I ask.
    - Hey I wanna know you more gorgeous! Are you straight?

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    I don't.

    I hate talking to other people in person, much less hitting on them. So I don't make any moves, even if I really want to.

    I'm not really sure if I come off to people as bisexual. People usually think I'm hetero with a few people wondering if I'm homosexual, but nobody has ever openly guessed me to be bi.

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    it sounds super stupid, but the gaydar, at least to me, is 100% a thing and is usually accurate. i can usually feel out or ask enough vague questions to see if the dude i'm interested in even has a chance of being into me. apparently my face looks very naturally androgynous for a dude too, but usually people are surprised to find out i have a preference for guys.

    if i get the right vibe back, i'll keep talking. if i don't, i let it go. coming off as desperate never helps nobody in the situation, lmao.


 

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