So actually though, I was partially incorrect.
Acts of Service
So, there is overlap.
And seeing as how I'm courting an ENFP, I'm not one to say that the Myers Briggs pairing always works. I think, the two things you need are, common: goals, aspirations, morals and faith AND respect for each other's differences.
ENFJ's can be pretty intense sometimes, but they balance that out with fun, and a sometimes surprisingly sweet nature. :)
Good luck by the way! :)