I'm very much ENFP and recently came out of a very intense and quite unhealthy relationship with an ENTJ. It was really detrimental to my self esteem since I doubt myself very readily and he was very quick to project all our issues onto my character flaws which I readily believed. Also being a really emotional and affectionate person who is probably a bit too obsessed with how much I want to be loved back, I really struggled with the fact that he wasn't complimentary, affectionate or doting and I just never properly felt loved.
Sharing the N trait meant we had a great intellectual connection but the emotional connection felt really lacking to me although he never understood.
I always wanted to be with someone really warm and loving people but the people that I end up with are always ENTJ or INTJ and everything I read says that these tend to be the best match for my personality type.
Considering that I overthink everything I'm sure I'm just overthinking this as well and probably also massively generalising but I'm starting to feel like I'll never be with someone who's really warm and affectionate and that I'll always be the person who does the doting instead of being on the receiving end of it.
Just wondering what other peoples thoughts and experiences are with ENFPs being in relationships with other personality types, maybe other personalities that are more similar to them or other types with the F trait?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated, please stop my incessant over analysing!