How do you handle relationships? Compared to how I used to be, basically the walking stereotype of an overemotional Feeler, I would say I handle relationships pretty damn well. I do have very high standards and not in a superficial, you-have-to-be-over-6-feet-tall-and-have-a-six-pack way and that puts off people. I'm also not the most affectionate person ever (inb4 Feelers are all overly affectionate) and that seems to annoy my significant others; one of my exes hated the fact that I never wanted to hug or kiss in public. All in all, I'm loving, understanding, and caring, but still a bit detached.
How do you react in an argument? Detached. EXTREMELY caustic and sarcastic. Depending on the person and what we're arguing about, I can get pretty heated up and emotional, but that happens rarely.
Do you tend to understand your emotions? Not really, my emotions overwhelm me on a daily basis. There have been times when I have strong emotional reactions and I don't know why the hell I feel a certain way; my emotions can be very sudden and disturbing.
Do you consider yourself emotional? Outwardly I am not very emotional. I'm not very expressive especially when I'm not around strangers. But inside I am VERY emotional, simple things that people think are trivial, silly, etc. can incite strong emotions. My family on the other hand, thinks I'm very cold and calculating because a lot of things don't faze me. I know this all sounds very contradictory but I noticed something about myself: I'm not very emotional about things that the average person gets emotional over. Like when my English class reads sad poetry, everyone in the room, except myself, gets sad and tells my teacher that the poem 'ruined their day'. Yet when I think about the inconsistencies of life or overly analyze into otherwise 'happy' literature, I become depressed, while everyone tells me to chill and not read into things.
Do you sometimes find logic irrelevant or not applicable? Yeah, but only when I get into my Ne mood. When I'm in my Ne mood, I talk incessantly about random stuff and possibilities, which can be illogical or irrational. I KNOW that many of the things I say are very silly and nonsensical but reminding me every time I make an exaggeration is the fastest way to irritate me.
N.B. Many people, usually Thinkers, believe that all feeling types have very open and boisterous emotions but this can't be further from the truth. Some Feelers, especially those with a high Fi, are emotional but not in a loud or open way.