This is a discussion on The type most likely to be cheaters? within the Myers Briggs Forum forums, part of the Personality Type Forums category; Originally Posted by HGy Someone please escort this peasant off the premisis :-P I'd say peasant isn't the right word ...
woah, i like the point you made here. i wonder what your mbti type is,
because as you said, i was 'upfront' about me 'physically cheating' to my ex-girlfriend, well my intention was to rub it in her face so she can break up with me but it didn't work after many trials..
but i think the question of the poll is more like "what types are most likely to cheat 'purposely'"
because honestly, some types can't 'go out of their way' to cheat.
but as you said, i guess if everyone had the opportunity to cheat, it depends on their loyalty and integrity. not solely based on their mbti types.
Last edited by supernocturnal; 01-15-2017 at 04:46 AM.
stereotypes happen for reason.
yes, i shamelessly brag about it. even to my girlfriend sometimes until they tell me they don't wanna hear it and i go 'oh right, who am i talking to'
but i know it's wrong. and i also know it's bad.
but i like what's wrong and bad. naturally. i can't help it.
it's like my flesh is fighting with my spirit. just like what Paul said in the bible.
hey, i'm an ESTP and i approve your message. hahahaha
if you are so good at typing, realize that typing someone as most likely to cheat can offend other people.
it certaintly doesn't offend me. because you're stating the truth, and it's all logical.
yes the question is, who is most LIKELY to cheat. not who IS a cheater.
but some people cannot take it just literally like thinkers like yourself.
all the statements you made about ESTPs are basically all true.
and yes you are right, you never said ESTP can never be loyal.
to other types, being stereotyped as someone who's most likely to cheat isn't a flattering thing.
so they're being offended for ESTPs. which i think it's very sweet and kind and i appreciate so much.
but i also appreciate your point of view.. well i don't want to even call it that because to me, it's a fact.
but let me give you this information.
these is a woman i'm in love with. and altough i've cheated before, i really don't want to cheat on this girl.
because i love her so much. and i am so attracted to her.
actually, cheating on her would be just wasting my time and energy altogether.
and i find no one else more attractive. because she is absolutely gorgeous.
i'm an SE, so trust me when i say that. hahahah
hey, i'm not gonna lie. when i was young, one of the criteria of my mate was
-someone very good looking (so i don't have wandering eyes and harbor desire to cheat)
and i was a teenager when i wrote that, so i guess i subconsciously knew that i was going to 'want to' cheat if my girlfriend wasn't satisfying in my eyes.
but of course again, that doesn't mean i won't cheat on her.
but then it doesn't mean i WILL cheat on her either. (for the sensitive ones)
this is such a 'sensitive' topic. and i think you have to just cater your response to whoever the audience is.
but to you, i'll just tell you that i fully agree.
(no offense to INFJ/INFP)
because those two types are usually sacrificing so much in a relationship they tend to be not assertive.
and even though they are good at sympathizing with people, they tend to be emtionally selfish.
and when the partner is not happy, they get personally offended and sometimes don't express their true frustration.
and they won't express it because they don't want to offend the partner. unless they blow up in anger.
and the vicious cycle keeps going.
i know this because i have very close people that are these types.
i feel really bad for these types WHEN they have to go through this.
honestly i'm quite frustrated at other's response and their butt-hurtedness... yes i'm going to say it.
i don't think they're understanding the question to this poll and taking it as a 'sexual-promicuity' thing or whatever they imagine 'cheater' is to be.
and just like the post above, i've also seen INFJ females who's slutty and turned them into a slut plenty of times.
but that doesn't mean they are most likely to cheat. i don't think people understand the question.
i don't know how you're not frustrated at these illogical arguments which makes no sense because they're not backing up anything by saying those comments.
all should know. ALL type can cheat. and i know this because i MADE them cheat.
some are harder. some are easier. but they are all capable.
some feel guilty afterwards. some don't.
some get attached. some enjoy it and move on.
some are perverted. some are not.
oh. and ESTPs are FAR from being perverted.
just wanted to make that statement because being perverted is some weird sh!+ that seemingly a lot of "N" types are into.
anyways, i've seen some other types that are super horny. but it doesn't mean she likes to cheat.
and why are people talking about strip clubs... omg. what a waste of money.
why pay when you can get them for free?
i guess some people have to pay to see naked girls huh.
ALL types can cheat.
MOST likely ? well. why don't you deal with all 16 types and then find out. 5 each at least.
i personally made a list of mbti type list in my note and i have more than 100 people.
and those are the people that i know and am close te. and i know their personal lives and their behaviors in relationships.(most of them)
this isn't 'who likes prostitutes the most'
because honestly. that would be a different result
why don't someone make one for 'who's the most perverted'. that would be probably make people feel uncomfortable.
because the perverted ones are the one you least expect.
just like you said.
once ESTP 'wants it' in their head. it's over.
he/she has to not want to cheat. that's probably the one of the 'only' way.