I am currently confused on my type. I've done very, very extensive research on both types (and others, as well), and I am having a hard time associating myself strongly with certain things about each. Things I see are very prevalent in both types. My best friend for the past several years is an INFJ. She says she sees a lot of ENFJ in my general behavior, speech, past etc... but reading more about each type alienates me from both.
I'm a pretty strong 4w3. I know this is a common type for ENFPs, among others.
This whole P vs J, Fi vs Fe is difficult for me to side with.
Especially when I kind of have different ideas on what both are/could be compared to what I see others often saying.
I find myself to be in conflict with valuing individuality VS. valuing harmony.
Valuing self VS. others.
Being assertive & bold VS.. being agreeable & easy to be around.
Personal identity VS. Collective identity
Alone VS. with others.
It's pretty apparent in a lot of my conflicting behaviors, opinions, attitudes etc...
It makes me think of MBTI / functions etc... to be very unreliable
I have a lot of theories on this I haven't seen people talk about, but I'll make it short by asking:
What do you think some differences between a ENFP 4w3 & an ENFJ 4w3 would be?