ExFP's and promiscuity

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    INTJ - The Scientists

    ExFP's and promiscuity

    Out of all the types I've noticed that ESFP's and ENFP's tend to be very promiscuous. I was curious why this is? I had noticed it with ESFP's but more recently I've noticed that ENFP's I've met "get around" a lot too. Two different ENFP's who had crushes on me were sleeping around with other guys while flirting with me. Personally I think promiscuity is a huge turn off but I just noticed that it seems to be common primarily with these two personality types (no, I'm not saying EVERY ESFP and ENFP is promiscuous, nor that being promiscuous is bad, merely that people of these two types seem most often to be promiscuous). As an INTJ I tend to take sexual relationships and relationships in general very seriously, as it seems do INFJ's among others. Do you think that promiscuity, as far as types are concerned, is mainly tied to extroversion or maybe to some combination ExxP for example. Idk, I'm curious what others thoughts are on this. Care to share thoughts, observations, explanations..



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    Unknown Personality


    Because ExFPs are arguably the two most popular personality types especially for women. They love everyone and everyone loves them (when they're at their best).

    P.S. another INTJ male smitten with an ENFP woman

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    I'd say this applies to ExxPs. I can see the thinking types being just as bad. Though I myself am not promiscuous at all. So there is hope for ENFPs.

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    INTJ - The Scientists

    Quote Originally Posted by puer_aeternus View Post
    P.S. another INTJ male smitten with an ENFP woman
    Well I said the ENFP girls were flirting with me, not the other way around. I'm actually really into this INFJ at the moment.

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    INTJ - The Scientists

    Quote Originally Posted by KateMarie999 View Post
    I'd say this applies to ExxPs. I can see the thinking types being just as bad. Though I myself am not promiscuous at all. So there is hope for ENFPs.
    Haha, of course not all of them are going to be promiscuous. They do love to talk about their boobs in public all the time though

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    ENFP - The Inspirers

    I would say the p part would probably make them less susceptible by social standards like not being a ho, just for the sake of not being a ho because society just says no, and they probably percieved it that there was nothing wrong with having multiple partners as long as you wear protection against babies and stds, the e part was probably influenced by a certain type of social status that may carry some traits that make them more flirty, and make it easier for them to ho thus they were never influenced by multiple negative outcomes to condition them not to do it anymore, lastly both types put fun on their ultimate priority list and are constantly on the pursuit of happiness. sex is fun therefore they have lots of it. however them flirting with you and showing they care even tho they have multiple partners may be influenced by the f area as they want someone to care for them and someone to care for, do to them thinking with their hearts over there heads, which is not necessarily a bad thing, I'm sure if you don't ever bore them and show them as much love as you can, they will find that loving you and having only one sex partner instead of loving no one and having multiple sex partners will make them happier, and they would probably fear slutting around in chance that they might loose you, hence the f is putting personal relationships and feelings over the technical right and smart decisions, not saying that slutting is technically right, just stating the highly valued personal relationships area may strongly influence them to put a lot of effort to keep the relationship together, so I say if things don't work out for you with that other girl, and you're not to grossed out about all the guys she's been with, go for them, they will probably be able to make your heart happy.... finally I'd like to state these psychological preferences and ways of thinking are neither the right or wrong way, there are many perspectives and opinions that have many valid points on why its right or wrong, it's all about how you personally perceive it. this is just my take on how this type may perceive it and I'm aware I will never fully understand it, so I'm looking forward to constructive critiscism and feedback so I can improve my knowledge in this area, rather than a heated debate

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    ENFP - The Inspirers

    Quote Originally Posted by Philosophizer View Post
    Out of all the types I've noticed that ESFP's and ENFP's tend to be very promiscuous. I was curious why this is? I had noticed it with ESFP's but more recently I've noticed that ENFP's I've met "get around" a lot too. Two different ENFP's who had crushes on me were sleeping around with other guys while flirting with me. Personally I think promiscuity is a huge turn off but I just noticed that it seems to be common primarily with these two personality types (no, I'm not saying EVERY ESFP and ENFP is promiscuous, nor that being promiscuous is bad, merely that people of these two types seem most often to be promiscuous). As an INTJ I tend to take sexual relationships and relationships in general very seriously, as it seems do INFJ's among others. Do you think that promiscuity, as far as types are concerned, is mainly tied to extroversion or maybe to some combination ExxP for example. Idk, I'm curious what others thoughts are on this. Care to share thoughts, observations, explanations..
    I think this is more an issue of values rather than type. Maybe the EFP traits are more likely to attract other people, but a person's values determines whether or not the person will be promiscuous. I'm an ENFP and I'm a demisexual. There are very few people that I'm sexually attracted to at all, let alone willing to sleep with. Like you, I take relationships very seriously, and cannot tolerate those of superficial nature.

    I am, however, guilty of talking about my boobs in public. Frequently.
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    ENTP - The Visionaries

    Oh, well... I think I would act that way if I was confident enough. However, I would still prefer a lasting and gentle relationship instead of spontaneous sex. Not that it would be any less acceptable to do those things. It might at least be an interesting new experience.
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    INTP - The Thinkers

    I confess I was promiscuous when I was younger. But in marriage I am devoted and faithful.

    I don't, however, talk about my boobs because I don't have any. Even with a push-up bra, I don't have enough for cleavage. :)

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    ISFP - The Artists

    I hate routine, especially partners. And I personally love EXFP girls, my favorite type tbh...they've broken my heart though (:/) and then start attention whoring once I move on.

    I hate super serious independent type girls though, we don't click


     
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