I hear people often explaining people's negative behavior as stemming from all sorts of hurtful or negative experiences.... yet there are people who go through the same experiences and do not behave negatively and are healthy in how they feel about themselves and others.
Have you ever talked to people who were abandoned by their parents and foster parents.... who turned out caring and functional? I have.
Have you talked to people who were shamed and physically punished or abused who turned out to be strong caring individuals? I have.
Have you seen people complain about basically everything and be addicted into oblivion who had very promising starts and seemingly very few problems? I have.
What do you think? Is it possible that no matter what your past experiences are, in the question of healthy behavior and outlook, other factors might be stronger ?
And if so what explanation would you give for why 2 people can go through the same experience but one come out on the other side unscathed?