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This is a discussion on NFs - Type the Ideal Match within the NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers forums, part of the Keirsey Temperament Forums category; There are many threads where people list the MBTI types they feel would be an ideal match for them....however, in ...

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    NFs - Type the Ideal Match

    There are many threads where people list the MBTI types they feel would be an ideal match for them....however, in this thread, let's do the opposite.

    Describe your ideal romantic match, and then let others determine what type(s) such a person sounds like (both MBTI & enneagram).

    And no doubt our ideals may not turn out so ideal in reality, or an unexpected type may fit them, but this is just a game, ooookay?

    -----

    I'll start....type this guy!

    - Intelligence is very important (but he doesn't have to be "book smart" like me). Ability to grasp things somewhat quickly & easily & to communicate well. Good vocabulary & grammar is also nice. I usually prefer someone more "cerebral" than physical.

    - Has creativity/talent/expertise/special interests. I like a guy with a sense of who he is & who can express it in an interesting way, someone I can admire. I need someone who can appreciate & admire my talents/intelligence/strengths also.

    - Compatible interests to mine. Cultured: loves music, appreciates art, eats different foods, likes intellectual things, wants to travel, etc.

    - Compatible Humor; a combo of witty, playful, silly.

    - Kind, compassionate, thoughtful, considerate, encouraging, supportive. Able to see other perspectives, can give the benefit of the doubt, can take constructive criticism.

    - Can lead and initiate/plan. More organized and structured than me, but not anal retentive. Responsible when it counts, but not rigid/uptight.

    - Spontaneous and adventurous and likes new things/ideas/places, etc. A sense of Romanticism.

    - Spiritual, shared beliefs. High moral standards and integrity.

    - Has deep feelings and is loyal, but not overly dependent or emotionally weak/clingy. I prefer someone who is warm and can express their feeling, but I don't mind someone more reserved either.

    Of course there's also physical attraction & "chemistry", but that's not something to be typed.
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    INTP - The Thinkers

    When I honestly had many of these traits I was not successful dating. When I became the reverse outwardly - I was no longer dateless. When I was the bad guy on the outside long enough, ......
    At least I'm no longer dateless.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Runescribe View Post
    When I honestly had many of these traits I was not successful dating. When I became the reverse outwardly - I was no longer dateless. When I was the bad guy on the outside long enough, ......
    At least I'm no longer dateless.
    So are you typing that as INFJ then?

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    INFP - The Idealists

    Quote Originally Posted by OrangeAppled View Post
    There are many threads where people list the MBTI types they feel would be an ideal match for them....however, in this thread, let's do the opposite.

    Describe your ideal romantic match, and then let others determine what type(s) such a person sounds like (both MBTI & enneagram).

    And no doubt our ideals may not turn out so ideal in reality, or an unexpected type may fit them, but this is just a game, ooookay?

    -----

    I'll start....type this guy!

    - Intelligence is very important (but he doesn't have to be "book smart" like me). Ability to grasp things somewhat quickly & easily & to communicate well. Good vocabulary & grammar is also nice. I usually prefer someone more "cerebral" than physical.

    - Has creativity/talent/expertise/special interests. I like a guy with a sense of who he is & who can express it in an interesting way, someone I can admire. I need someone who can appreciate & admire my talents/intelligence/strengths also.

    - Compatible interests to mine. Cultured: loves music, appreciates art, eats different foods, likes intellectual things, wants to travel, etc.

    - Compatible Humor; a combo of witty, playful, silly.

    - Kind, compassionate, thoughtful, considerate, encouraging, supportive. Able to see other perspectives, can give the benefit of the doubt, can take constructive criticism.

    - Can lead and initiate/plan. More organized and structured than me, but not anal retentive. Responsible when it counts, but not rigid/uptight.

    - Spontaneous and adventurous and likes new things/ideas/places, etc. A sense of Romanticism.

    - Spiritual, shared beliefs. High moral standards and integrity.

    - Has deep feelings and is loyal, but not overly dependent or emotionally weak/clingy. I prefer someone who is warm and can express their feeling, but I don't mind someone more reserved either.

    Of course there's also physical attraction & "chemistry", but that's not something to be typed.
    Maybe ENFJ?

    The J part would make them good at leadership and organisation.

    The NF part would make them have high ideals.

    The E would make them expressive.

    Then the intelligent and cultured aspect would be luck of the draw I guess :D

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    ^ Yeah, I always think it sounds like an ENFJ also....maybe e3w4.

    The thing is, I just got out of a relationship with an INFJ e3w4; but he was lacking some of those key qualities (like being a responsible adult who works & doesn't mooch of his parents like a bum ).

    Okay, list yours

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    INFP - The Idealists

    Well your ideal guy sounds overall impressive. A good mix of being liberal minded but also organised and efficient.

    Some of the traits I like:

    Someone socially aware. No prejudices.

    Left wing political values. I don't mind if they are extreme left ;)

    Eccentric would be a plus. Someone who doesn't mind living a non-conventional life.

    Intellectual

    Non judgmental. Especially when it comes to me. At the moment I can't live up to normal social expectations so I need someone who will be patient with me while I work hard to reach my goals.

    I would like if she could introduce me to new things, particularly cultural things.

    Someone who will allow me to have space and independence, but is also affectionate.

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    Unknown Personality

    Someone honest, easy-going, can keep up with me physically, at least a little above-average, doesn't care much about what I say, doesn't mind my friends, realizes I go through mood swings, doesn't mind my addiction, is open-minded, a little cynical, has some problems, is hard to get a definite read on, respects me. About it.

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    INFJ - The Protectors

    @OrangeAppled , your guy sounds awesome... I want one!
    OrangeAppled thanked this post.

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    @Luke
    I'd think any of the following:
    enneagram: 4w5, 4w3, 5w4, 7w6, 9w8
    exFP 4w3, 7w6
    IxFP 4w5, 4w3, 5w4, 9w8
    IxTP 5w4, 9w8

    Could be a J who is more easy-going, patient, and okay with less structure in life. I get a P vibe from this though.


    @MisterLiver
    I'm leaning towards almost any introvert or some exxPs, but could be many types.
    enneagram: 4, 6, 7, 9

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    I've been trying to come up with an ideal woman for me, but when it comes down to it, this is what I look for most in a SO:

    -Accepts me for me, flaws and all, and loves me regardless.
    -Genuine, honest, compassionate, and kind.

    Really, that's all I'm looking for that really matters. I can work with the rest, but these qualities are pretty much either in someone, or they're not. And since I'm an INFJ, well... good luck on me finding anyone who'll take the time to get to know me, in order to be accepting of me. :oP I can usually tell fairly quickly after meeting someone if they're genuine and kind or not, but it takes some effort on their part to know me to know if they'll be accepting or not.

    And man, oh man, does it ever suck when they don't accept me, especially after spending all the time with them. :o(

    Edit/Addition: I don't know what type would fit, or what type would be best for me. An NT would be good for bring the rationale into the relationship, but an NF would provide and understand more of the affection I want to both receive and give. The only thing I can really say for certain is that I'd benefit more from an E than an I. I'm way too introverted on my own as it is. The only way another introvert would probably work well is if she was just barely introvert (and possibly very extroverted in her T or F).


     
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