This. 100 times this.I read the first paragraph and I disagreed as well, but as I continued I agreed with the theory behind it. I work with 90% SJs. Maybe it's just a dom Pi thing where I've noticed when I ask isfj a question sometimes it's like they don't listen to what I say and turn inward to what they think I'm going to ask. Then I get an answer that doesnt make any sense. This doesn't happen that frequently. I've also had this happen with esfj but it's significantly less.
My answer is purely looking at work situations where people are zoned into their project then I interrupt and they quickly respond. During a conversation for pleasure I'd be reversed where istj is probably better at listening and responding and the esfj is focused on talking in my experience.
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