Hi so I'm an ESTJ female and I was thinking back about some of the ways I've reacted when bad things have happened in my life and realized they were a little strange. For example when my grandmother passed away I didn't mention it to any of my friends or even my boyfriend even though I knew these people would have been kind and supportive. I went out a lot and acted like it had never happened for weeks/months. My boyfriend only even found out that she had died when I offhandedly mentioned that I'd gone to the funeral. My thinking was that I didn't want it to be a thing, I didn't want to discuss it or acknowledge it happened and deal with people trying to comfort me and me have to react to their apologies or pity. I was wondering if anyone else has seen similar responses from ESTJ's or even ENTJ's or experienced this themselves?