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    Not getting along with members of your quadra.

    Is this particularly common, because I think that a good, though not majorly large amount of Gammas that type as such are utterly insufferable, smug and full of complete shit? Particularly those who are ENTJs here, god if I see someone who identifies as an ENTJ from the get-go that just makes me want to get the fuck away from them quick. Like yeah, I don't particularly like a whole lot of people at first glance (though I'm actually pro-human in that I actually have faith in us as a whole, which is lost to the hipster generation THESE DAYS) but yeesh a lot of people who identify as INTJ, ENTJ and fuck even the gamma SFs are kind of pretentious and mean-spirited.

    Then again, I am known as a random nonsense spewing asshole in the circle of friends that I keep around. Berating them for fucking up. Maybe I just sort of hate myself? Eh.

    Note: I'm not saying that ENTJs and INTJs are bad. Like my favorite people in the world are them, but it's kind of a red-flag with me if someone is stereotypically an ExTJ or hell any type for that matter. Getting attached to your type like that is so boring.

    Is it just normal to have an intense reaction like that? I mean Alphas and Deltas are just so confusing in their mindset for me to really understand them. Particularly Si-types, I just don't understand how they can extol that as their virtue? Good food, fashion and whatnot is nice but god damn are they intense about that sort of thing.

    Be free to berate me here. This is a massive shit-post and I'm going to regret posting this.



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    Well... I tend to like good food and candy, but not that interested in fashion. Still-- When someone is wearing something really eclectic, bohemian and it all works, and it's strange and wonderful, I'm like-- Wowww! I want to be able to do something like that! Gah! How!?

    They put these stockings, and.. Like.. Corsets and.. Fiddly-widgets... And they look so much... Character. Sheesh. Sorry, I'm blubbering. Sometimes people amaze me. Not often, though.

    I managed to get a steampunk pocketwatch on a necklace and I was happy with that! But no idea what to wear to go with it. Is there an SEI out there who can dress me!? The clothes in stores look so... Generic.

    ... Anywhoo...

    In general, I tend to get along with pretty much anybody, regardless of Quadra. So, maybe it's in a Gamma's nature to get along with nobody, because they're like.. Opposite of Alpha? Haha.

    I'm kidding, though. Honestly, you're still you within your Quadra, so you'll dislike who you tend to dislike, based on your preferences and how you were raised. Your cognitive functions are just driving those worldviews home.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sixty Nein View Post
    Is this particularly common, because I think that a good, though not majorly large amount of Gammas that type as such are utterly insufferable, smug and full of complete shit? Particularly those who are ENTJs here, god if I see someone who identifies as an ENTJ from the get-go that just makes me want to get the fuck away from them quick. Like yeah, I don't particularly like a whole lot of people at first glance (though I'm actually pro-human in that I actually have faith in us as a whole, which is lost to the hipster generation THESE DAYS) but yeesh a lot of people who identify as INTJ, ENTJ and fuck even the gamma SFs are kind of pretentious and mean-spirited.

    Then again, I am known as a random nonsense spewing asshole in the circle of friends that I keep around. Berating them for fucking up. Maybe I just sort of hate myself? Eh.

    Note: I'm not saying that ENTJs and INTJs are bad. Like my favorite people in the world are them, but it's kind of a red-flag with me if someone is stereotypically an ExTJ or hell any type for that matter. Getting attached to your type like that is so boring.

    Is it just normal to have an intense reaction like that? I mean Alphas and Deltas are just so confusing in their mindset for me to really understand them. Particularly Si-types, I just don't understand how they can extol that as their virtue? Good food, fashion and whatnot is nice but god damn are they intense about that sort of thing.

    Be free to berate me here. This is a massive shit-post and I'm going to regret posting this.
    Well, seeing how the following relations are in a quadra: Identity, Acti, Mirror and Dual, I'd say that no, you should get with your own quadra. Unless you got mistyped. Just see how far from my initial type is my ACTUAL type: ISFJ <-> ENFP . LOL not even a LETTER in common! With that said:

    I am a very good person. Modest, humble and good. Others say this, not me. But there is a thing, a thing that is common amongst gamma FiSe's: See, I'm quite zealous. Once I make up my mind...good luck turning me from that path. We are quite zealous, yes. Good meaning, but it doesn't always show.
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    Well.. You don't -have- to get along, but the question becomes.. Do you get along with any of the other quadras more? If so, I'd look into the possibility of having been mistyped.

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    @Word Dispenser

    steampunk...*drool!




    Well idk, so far I have gotten into trouble with an ESI-ISFJ; SLE-ESTP; LIE-ENTJs & MBTI ISTJs.
    I pretty much get into trouble with MBTI SJs :/...

    People piss me off in general tho *_* and I prefer to have nonsensical fun, just because...
    Last edited by LibertyPrime; 03-02-2015 at 08:03 AM.

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    Unfortunately, valuing a certain cognition doesn't stop you from being stupid.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Entropic View Post
    Unfortunately, valuing a certain cognition doesn't stop you from being stupid.
    ;.; so that's how it is.

    but I liked you.
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    Not only making sure you're not mistyped, everyone you think are in your quadra need to be typed correctly in socionics as well. Also I wouldn't necessarily assume that xNTJs in MBTI are all LIE/ILI's in socionics.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sixty Nein View Post
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    So so glad someone brought this up. I automatically expect gammas to be chill and interesting enough to socialize with, to get my sense of humor, to think rationally... but I'm often really disappointed when I discover that someone being a gamma doesn't necessarily make them likable or say that they will share my values. So many engage in stupid, daft conversation and just refuse to think critically or be intellectually/morally thorough.

    It's a shame, really. Guess that's why intertype doesn't mean THAT much in the end -- so many people of other quadras that could easily trump some of the gammas I have had the absolute misfortune of encountering.
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    <.< well I like all of you bastards so far...
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