Hey, i have à question for istps out there. I'm an infj in a 4 year relationship with an istp. He loves me, but has been unfaithful multiple times. He has come clean, and I have honestly forgiven him, but of course, I have trust issues now. We live in France, and he has announced to me that he would like to spend 2weeks in Brazil this summer. He would spend time with a friend of his and 2 other girls, one whome he crushed on last year (yes, he met her last year on another trip abroad). I'm barely recovering from all this, but at the same time, I' m trying to act like a reasonable adult. However, I must admit that the perspective is extremely triggering. I know these 2 weeks are going to be pure hell for me, anxiety wise. Should I ask him not to go? Would you istps find this unreasonable?