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I was abused myself as a child and I know that there is probably some correlation between type, and being the victim of child abuse. However, I thought about which types are the MOST LIKELY to be the abusers themselves?

14M and live in some random shitty group home. 6 year prison sentence, have 4 years left. Many staff I have a healthy relationship with but a few are horrendous. One, in particular, [let’s call her “Karen” for anonymity] I’ll discuss now. According to my insights, she’s an ESTJ 1w2. Karen gives...

Hello INFJs of the interwebs, I got emotionally abused by a covert narcissist for two years, I was codependent with her and she was my best friend. After weeks of guilt inducing I ended the relationship to her. First I was so proud and felt so liberated and full of energy. Now I just saw how...

What Happens When An INTJ Stops Caring? What do you do? me: 1. As simple as turning off a light switch and leaving the room. The part of an INTJ that matters is simply gone. 2. When an INTJ stops caring, then an INTJ stops trusting. Or Vs Vs. Then. . . #1. 3. When an INTJ stops caring...

Hi! New here, but love this site and it's insight :) I am writing a book and working on a character that has been heavily manipulated and abused since childhood. Coming out of that abuse, I'm trying to figure out what a very broken person (ptsd, fear, nervous) would look like as they begin to...

Hello! I would appreciate some insight from INTP's or anyone who could help. (Thank you to whoever takes the time to read and respond to this) I'm in a LDR with my boyfriend who is an INTP, and I'm INFP. We have been having some issues lately. He has been less affectionate after being together...

I was constantly beaten, humiliated & mocked by my folks growing up, then raped by a stranger in a a toilet block when I was 13. My folks pressured me to study a course & enter a career I despise, which I am still stuck in today b/c of financial reasons. I know that INFPs are particularly...

Hi other 4 people and other people of other types. I was wondering how 4's deal with substance abuse and what you think about it.

Talked over some concepts with my therapist and I wanna get your collective two cents about this, I fully acknowledge that this is at a larger scope than an internet forum can truthfully evaluate, yadda yadda. Warning for heavy material. TLDR; My household has always been abusive and forced me...

Hey everyone, I have been gone for a good 6 years so I don't have any friends! Most that I have seem to be inactive. I am INFP, I thought I was ISFJ but but the S/F and J/P were always super close in percentage. I have gone through hell and back, have evolved into a new person and am so excited...

During last year (2017), I had a long period of safety from starvation-worshiping terrorists - From March to October - 7 months. For some reason, I thought that I'll be able study normally when I won't be threatened, but I didn't realist the extend of damage done. I tried to use that period to...

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So recently I've been trying to use psychology to better understand my dad, since he acts really strange. I tried to type him, but I think he may have some sort of mental illness that we (my family) aren't aware of, so it makes it difficult. I would really like some help to figure out whats...

I was abused when I was younger....the worst part is that at the time I kinda liked it. That bothers me so much. It wasn't forced on me, so it was partially my fault. Now I'm all jumpy when someone touches me and nervous around people. Any advice on how to deal with this? Thx:proud: |-/

Hi all, I'm an INFJ female who has had a series of bad experiences with INFPs. I started to notice the pattern a year and a half ago, and it's unfortunately made me both wary of INFPs and morbidly determined to break the cycle. The latter because I feel a strong immediate chemistry with and...

I'm trying to learn web design/coding stuff for years but it's not getting anywhere. I have some kind of severe learning and real time communication impairment ever since the attacks in 2005. Anyway, after the attacks in 2005 and the years of cowardly terror campaign against me I have severe...

So as of the last year or so, after quite a few years of hard work and research that i've put in, I've reached a conclusion that I am suffering from what's called C-PTSD. I certainly have a narcissist (or someone that suffers from narcissism) in my life, and that person is my father (and others...