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Sometimes I've been called a pushover, mostly because of the compliments I give out, etc. I like to have as many people as I can accept me and I will try to achieve that. If I can't have that, it doesnt feel right. Any other enfp's feel this way?

I have seen several references to INTJ women as not being feminine. I have also seen posts indicating that INTJ men prefer their female partners to be feminine. What do you consider feminine? Clothing, behavior, attitudes, intellect, accent? Describe. Ladies, do you think you are feminine by...