Personality Cafe banner


  1. I'm trying my best to understand asexuality

    Asexuality, demisexuality, semisexuality, etc. I'm trying my best to understand it. I read some about it before it started becoming part of conversations. I understood it in a theoretical, non-concrete way. It makes sense. People are different from me—it's all good. Then I started becoming...
  2. Did you love your enneagram type at first "sight"?

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    I’ve recently discovered my enneagram type, but it took me a while and I honestly had some resistance towards it, which made me wonder how it was for others – maybe it’s normal to have some initial resistance? Was it easy to figure out your type? Or did you – like me – have some resistance...
  3. The Happy Thread!

  4. How are you today?

  5. [INFP] Can any INFP relate to this?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hello everyone! I was feeling a little down recently and i was writing some lines about that. And I would be very interested if any INFPs can relate somehow to this and what you are doing if you find yourself in these type of situations: The constant yearning for…SOMETHING! can drain an INFP...
  6. Toxic online communities

  7. The Spoon Theory: My Response To Hearing, Then Reading About It - July 18 2016

    Blog The spoon theory is a disability metaphor used to explain the reduced amount of energy available for activities of daily living and productive tasks that may result from disability or chronic illness. Spoons are an intangible unit of measurement...
  8. How are you today?

  9. How are you today?

  10. Accepted?

    I want to be accepted. I want people to burst with pre-911 bliss when they see me. In all things, to be stirred and comforted by the beauty of compassion. For judgement to always be suspended. I want to stand tall in the confidence that I can be accepted even though all the things. I need...
  11. [Enneagram Type 4] BPD, Moving On and Acceptance

    Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    BPD, Break up, and Moving On Hello folks, I'm a 20 year old woman diagnosed with borderline personality disorder (BPD). In May this year, my ex-girlfriend broke up with me after more than a year of being together and 2 years of knowing each other. We are now best friends but I am not entirely...
  12. [Enneagram Type 9] Is it hard to let others in?

    Type 9 Forum - The Peacemaker
    How hard is it for you to let others know whats on your mind? I find it really hard to let others know how I'm really feeling, especially if they're close to me. I'm not entirely sure why, but its rather stressful to keep everything pent up inside. How about you guys? Do you ever feel this...
  13. [ENFJ] Live According to Personality Type, or Strive for Balance?

    ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    Finding out more about my personality type has been very interesting and encouraging. But can knowing your personality type make a difference in the way you live your life? Shouldn't we do what's right (in our own style) no matter what we're predisposed to do? In any given situation, the right...
  14. [ENFP] You must read this no matter where you are on your journey :)

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I think these are great words to ground us and remind us that all is ok. In this journey we must trust the process and always breathe in love and breathe out love :) Enjoy the read and Ty to mark and angel for loving this planet ,the humans that reside here and sharing these wise words Marc...
  15. [INFP] I love being an INFP! ...Anyone else?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I know INFPs are looked down upon a lot and INFPs themselves have to deal with a lot of their barrels of emotions all the time but whenever I think of another type I'd rather be I find myself not wanting to let go of the traits (at least the good ones) that come with being an INFP. Do you feels...
  16. Revelations.

    ​Learning to accept what you can’t change really makes life easier to deal with. I’ll start off with a simple example. If you know you cannot reach something, or accept that someone else is more effective than you at something like an instrument, or gaming, and you know you can never be as...
  17. Patience, Acceptance, Hope.

    If you have hope for something you cannot achieve, you will find disappointment in the process. To have that self awareness of when exactly to lessen hope in certain situations, makes you more effective. Hope will still be there, it can never be fully removed, but to lessen it will make you...
  18. All My Latest YT Rambles 2