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  1. Differences between flirting and just being friendly for ESFPs

    ESFP Forum - The Performers
    Hi there! So.....the title pretty much sums up my question....there's an ESFP dude I know who has been very friendly towards me for the past semester (laughs at my jokes, always happy to see me, tells me I'm funny, does random dances or stupid things to get my attention, finds me and talks to me...
  2. [Enneagram Type 9] Type 9 and type 8 relationship problems

    Type 9 Forum - The Peacemaker
  3. [INFP] Help this INFP heal from relationship trauma?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hello, all my life i've been abused and am now a messed up adult. I recently left my husband who was verbally/emotionally abusing me and am trying to live on my own now. I am currently trying to navigate my way through trying to have a healthy relationship with the most amazing, kind and gentle...
  4. [ENFP] My ex-ENFP best friend ghosted me under very weird circumstances

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    This is gonna be long, so bear with me. So it's about me (25F/ENFP) and my former best friend (22M/ENFP) We met nearly 4 years ago online and met up in person soon after. I developed a little crush on him and immediately let him know, only to get rejected. Feelings didn't run so deep, so I got...
  5. Advice for a women ENTJ in the dumps?

    Hi, I am a female ENTJ in my early 20s. I would like to thank you for your time for reading my thread. I just started work around 8 months ago, and recently I have been asked to try leading the marketing team. I work in a start-up company, and right now there is only 1 other member aside from...
  6. Opinions Wanted: Financial/Relationship Disagreement

    Sex and Relationships
    I would like to get some opinions on a recent disagreement with someone I am involved with in an intimate relationship (7-8 months, seeing each other 1-2x a week). I am going to try to keep this generic to try to avoid biased and specifically gender-biased answers...
  7. What annoys you in a relationship? (vent)

    Sex and Relationships
    I find relationships very difficult. Here I want to vent what i find is difficult. Would be nice if people could share some of their realtionship pet peeves, red flags etc. here, so I can learn what affects other people in a negative way in a relationship. 1 People who don't communicate...
  8. [ESTP] how to attract an estp

    ESTP Forum - The Doers
    i want a merely physical relationship with i guy, and i think he wants the same kind of relationship. the problem is, i knew him when i was little and an absolute holier-than-thou bitch. i want him to actually view me as a fvck buddy instead of some classmate that used to be a little prick. in...
  9. ENTPs Give Life Advice (And it Goes Badly)

    Myers Briggs Forum
    Ask an ENTP a question; get horrible advice with a convincing rationale so you can be a shitty person with a good excuse. That about sums it up.
  10. [Enneagram Type 9] Need Advice from 9s

    Type 9 Forum - The Peacemaker
    I have an enneagram 9 (ISFP) friend who's going through sorts. :\ Signs of disintegration to 6 Paranoia—he's had a premonition feeling and now locks his door He's questioned me about the health level of food I was going to feed his scorpion, when he usually wouldn't/knows I'm a good caretaker...
  11. [ISTP] I Can't Get Along with my ISTP BF's Female Friend, What Should I Do?

    ISTP Forum - The Mechanics
    So I'd like to start off by saying that this is an issue that I have had with this girl before I started dating my boyfriend. To keep a long story short, she rushed my sorority twice and did not receive an invitation to join, and because I was an officer in the organization at the time, she...
  12. New ENTP with a question for other ENTPs and friends of ENTPs.

    Hi! As mentioned in the title I'm a new ENTP to the site, having joined about an hour before making this post. I have a bit of a social problem which is the main reason I joined the cafe in the first place. I feel like this might be a common "NTP" issue so hopefully you'll all give some input...
  13. [INFJ] INFJ help with SE

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hey guys, new profile so not exactly new to these forums. Had a profile a few years ago, but never really went anywhere with it, so just thought I'd start over. Buy yeah hi. Sort of venting here, but also advice welcome. I am an INFJ 4w5. I've gone through some significant life changes in the...
  14. [ENTP] My Life Bible. Feeling lost? Maybe you'll find something useful here. Or maybe not.

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    Hello everyone, Brace yourselves. Huge message is coming. If you are an ENTP and you are feeling lost, please give this message a shot. I may come off a bit harsh, however I am always open to criticism. I am an enneagram 8 ENTP, so although I identify a lot with the ENTP description, some...
  15. New relationship - communication issues

    Sex and Relationships
    I've been dating an INTP guy for about 3 months (although it feels much longer since we are living together - we started off, and basically still are roomates). We have many things in common such as worldviews, some interests, we attend the same university, and have similar-enough personalities...
  16. [ENTP] ENTP-ENTP relationship advice

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    So I am a 21 yo ENTP. Been interested in this girl (also ENTP). I felt she was very interested in me too, she was always eager to talk with me about everything because I would impress her with my wits and how ambitious I am with my goals and what I like etc and she really liked that. I was doing...
  17. Reasons behind not building flexible career capital

    Education & Career Talk
    Background I'm trying to understand what the reasons that lead people to this mistake are. Maybe after we understand the reasons, we would realize that they're not mistakes after all. Or if we still believe they're mistakes, we'll be much able to solve them. Here are some general reasons: 1...
  18. [ENTP] Do ENTPs Fear Rejection?

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    Hello ENTPs! Quick question for you guys (guys specifically). As ENTPs, is there a trend or pattern of behavior for when you like a girl, but aren't sure if she likes you back? Do you play it safe for fear of rejection? Maybe for some other reason? Is that a thing for you guys? Are you guys...
  19. INTJ with All Low Trait Preferences

    Myers Briggs Forum
    Hey guys, I'm new to the site. I've read several articles before and thought about contributing a few times but never bothered to sign up until I got massively frustrated by this issue I'm having. Essentially, whenever I'm typed by any MBTI test (I've taken several), every one of my traits...
  20. [INTP] An INTP in college | motivation problems | need help

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    An INTP in college | motivation problems | need help!!!! Hello everybody. I am 17 years old, male, and it's my first year in college. I was wondering if there is any advice to how to manage studies, especially that i didn't do very well in high school because of me being a very lazy intp. I am...