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  1. [ESFJ] My ESFJ Boyfriend Thinks I'm Going to Leave Him

    ESFJ Forum - The Caregivers
    Hi! I have a problem with my ESFJ boyfriend. We have been together for a year now and he is still extremely afraid of getting emotionally attatched to me since he believes that I’m going to leave him at some point and he will get hurt. How can I convince him that he can let me in and that I’m...
  2. [INFJ] Perhaps I'm hypocritical?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    So, I've noticed that I sometimes yearn for attention from guys. I want to to be liked by guys, or at least in theory I do. But when I do find out that a guy likes me, I close up and become scared???? This is likely do to my fear of people getting too close to me, maybe? I feel so hypocritical...
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