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  1. [INTJ] Making very bad first impressions

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    I'm not sure if I'm the only one but I make terrible first impressions. Authority figures often wince at me because of how I treat them when we first meet (I believe that respect has to be earnt and that it has to be mutual), accompanied by my matter-of-fact/norm-breaking responses, they seem...
  2. [INTJ] INTJs, do you become even MORE detached and aloof when you really like someone?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    I've found that whenever I get really interested in someone (not necessarily romantic, friendship too) I feel so vulnerable and as a subconscious defense mechanism, I turn up the toggle on the Aloofness and Detachment. I feel like a failure because I assume they think I'm simply not interested...
  3. INTJs, do you become even MORE detached and aloof when you really like someone?

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    I've found that whenever I get really interested in someone (not necessarily romantic, friendship too) I feel so vulnerable and as a subconscious defense mechanism, I turn up the toggle on the Aloofness and Detachment. I feel like a failure because I assume they think I'm simply not interested...
  4. [INFP] Introversion + Social Life: How do you do it?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Ok. So I'm just wondering how y'all manage being introverted while staying in contact with the outside world. How do you do it? I spend most of the time inside of the comfortable space in my head and most of the time I'm pretty happy this way. Then I snap out of it and realize how alone I am...
  5. [ISTJ] What songs describe ISTJs?

    ISTJ Forum - The Duty Fulfillers
    Seems random, but I'd like to know if any songs exist that could describe ISTJs.
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