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  1. [ESTJ] ESTJ Rant Thread

    ESTJ Forum - The Guardians
    In this thread, ESTJ users can rant about various things which bother them.
  2. How Do You Respond To Loved Ones Being Angry

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    Basically, how do you react when a loved one (family, mate, friend, etc.) is expressing their frustration and anger, not necessarily towards you, but rather on something you don't have any relevancy in the matter. I'm asking this because I'm extremely sensitive to my partner's mood and...
  3. [INFP] INFP anger and resentment: Advice/tips on how to let that crap go

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I'm usually not an angry person, but I really get mad when people don't treat me right or violate a value (which I hear is typical INFP). I don't want to hold grudges or hold on to anger, so looking for advice from other INFPs on how they have managed/let go of anger and resentment. Including...
  4. [ENFP] Do You/Have You Had Anger Issues?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I rarely get angry. I am angry today but is such a rarity that it is like a novelty for me. However, I did know an ENFP guy through my twenties that would get angry and physical. He was pretty stocky and once punched a wooden door clean off its hinges. I think ENFPs can be emotionally...
  5. [INTP] How to handle intense emotions towards your child?

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    This is a question to you INTP parents out there. To make it short: I have a 7 yr old daughter who really helps me get in touch with my feelings. No one else in the whole world makes me as angry and irritated as she does. She is all feeling and a very different being than I am. She goes from...
  6. [INTP] Relationship with an INTP

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Hello! I would appreciate some insight from INTP's or anyone who could help. (Thank you to whoever takes the time to read and respond to this) I'm in a LDR with my boyfriend who is an INTP, and I'm INFP. We have been having some issues lately. He has been less affectionate after being together...
  7. Anger and Conflicts cause inner shaking in childhood. Can you relate to this?

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    Anger and Conflicts in my childhood used to make me feel shaken up inside (hidden from them). What Enneatypes experiences this in their childhood. I am a 9w1. I have 8s in my family, so I wonder does that play a role on my being so timid on the inside. I just like exploring this topic.
  8. MBTI type and anger

    Myers Briggs Forum
    So I know at least gut types in enneagram are equated with anger, and I was having a discussion with some about MBTI types and anger. and I began to question, but couldn't find a thread so I said hey I should make one. 1. Do you think the way someone expresses anger or what makes them angry...
  9. [Enneagram Type 8] Do Type 8's have a problem being treated the way they treat others?

    Type 8 Forum - The Challenger
    I'm fairly new to the Enneagram and it has by far been the most enlightening catalyst for me to do self exploration and development. That said, I'm in an intimate relationship with an 8 (most likely sx). One thing I've noticed is that she has zero tolerance for "do unto others as you would...
  10. [INFP] Which emotion do you avoid the most?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    What I mean by this is, Which mistakes do you most often avoid making that might bring the most negative feelings in you. I did not want to include other emotions for a reason. The IF temperament is most avoidant of these emotions, from what I have observed. I left multiple choices open in case...
  11. [Enneagram Type 1] Grudges, forgiveness, revenge

    Type 1 Forum - The Reformer
    How long do you tend to hold grudges for? Is forgiveness plausible most of the time? And the fun part: revenge. I'm the type of person who's pretty relaxed and it's very hard to push my buttons. But once you do, i basically erupt and either you get one warning or you get kicked out of my life...
  12. ENFJ: Help I feel so angry, I can't control it. What do I do?

    Advice Center
    Okay guys, so yes. I'm an ENFJ, and lately. (actually, it has started since last year) I've been getting very fired lately. What should I do when this emotion overcomes me? What can I do to stop this... and even when I get mad I hate it because then I feel so guilty afterwards...
  13. [ENTJ] Professional frustration leading to anger

    ENTJ Forum - The Executives
    One of my best friends is an INTP, he seemingly has a very small fuse when pushed in social situations or verbal discussions/debates with those that he sees as not quite up to the task, or belligerently not adding value to the conversation, or playing the devils advocate. As an ENTJ, I...
  14. [INFP] Anger, Frustration, Annoyance

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hello INFPs! From my own personal experience, it is far too easy to suppress my anger and frustration rather than addressing it. I say, "next time" and attempt to ignore it. However, These things build up over time and I can't help but notice I am becoming a little bit unstable. When people...
  15. [Enneagram Type 8] Fear of confronting because of fear of hurting and then being rejected/left

    Type 8 Forum - The Challenger
    Over the past one year, on several occasions, I have found myself unable to confront close friends even when a confrontation was required. This comes out of a fear - a fear of losing control if I let my anger out, saying too much too intensely, and hurting people to an extent that they decide to...
  16. [ENTP] Under Stress: How Are You Different From Normal?

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    Just wondering when you guys are under situations of pressure or stress, what are the behavioral cues that others notice or that you may only notice?
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  18. 'Hot-headedness': Which MBTI types and Enneagrams are most likely to have it?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    Being 'Hot-Headed': Which MBTI types and Enneagrams are most likely? Which MBTI types along with Enneagram are likely to be the most hot-headed? Especially when it comes to dealing with sources of disharmony or conflict situations in their face? Are feelers or thinkers more likely?
  19. [INFJ] When do you get angry?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I'd be interested in hearing how other INFJs express anger and frustration. Does it happen often or rarely and in what kind of situations? I can add my response later in too but I don't wanna influence anyone's answer because I'm genuinely curious :>