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  1. [ESTJ] ESTJ Rant Thread

    ESTJ Forum - The Guardians
    In this thread, ESTJ users can rant about various things which bother them.
  2. [INFP] ENFJs annoy me...

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    So I was looking up who INFPs are most compatible with and I saw we connect most with ENFJs. And I don't know, but I was kinda disappointed by this. It may just be the ones I know, but to me ENFJs are kinda irritating. My dad is one and we're pretty close. My art teacher is one too and we're...
  3. [INFP] Anger, Frustration, Annoyance

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hello INFPs! From my own personal experience, it is far too easy to suppress my anger and frustration rather than addressing it. I say, "next time" and attempt to ignore it. However, These things build up over time and I can't help but notice I am becoming a little bit unstable. When people...
  4. But... I'm a 4w5, Why do I constantly test as a 5w6?

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    It's frustrating because of the 4w5 being such a push and pull type. You cannot even test properly because it seems that your enneagram is always fluctuating. I have a really strong 5; but I KNOW for sure I am a 4 & not completely a 5. It's just super annoying when I see the results because I...
  5. [ISFP] ISFP annoyed me

    ISFP Forum - The Artists
    Hello friends, My friend who has ISFP annoyed me by doing something wrong, I want to reproach her in emotional manner, I want to excite her emotions then I will smile. The question is, is this way the best approach? If yes, please tell me what should I do? for example my words, my tone, my...
  6. How to live with an ESFP in SE-TE loop?

    Advice Center
    Sorry if I rant a bit but I'm just finished at this point. I cannot convey to you how difficult it is to live with a relative (esfp) who has possibly been in and out of an SE-TE loop for years. For a while I even thought she was Enneagram 8, ESTP, but when I read more about the ESTP well, that...
  7. [INTP] INTP daughter struggling with irrational parent, seeking advice.

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    So, I had a pretty irritating day today, which I think perfectly illustrates my problem. I need to write it out anyway, so sorry in advance for being complain-y and sounding like a whiny little teenaged brat. If any of you have dealt with similar though, or have a thought, I'd like to hear it...
  8. [INFP] Annoyed With INFPs

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Okay - I am an INFP. But does anyone else ever get annoyed with them? More specifically, the descriptions online about them. Dramatic, emotional, follows feelings, not logical primarily etc. etc.
  9. I strive to be perfect

    I know some people "think" to be perfect some "know" to be perfect and thereby I never wanna say I'm perfect. But I do feel as though, "I'm doing good now" when I have alot of friends. People like me. They wanna do stuff. They really really truly like having me around. That is what I want be...
  10. [ENTP] Bad mood insta cure

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    So obviously when people are in a bad mood they are really hard to handle with. But even if I try my hardest to interact nicely with others when I'm in a bad mood it seems like my bluntness shines through more than usually and it feels like every d*mn person is a enemy only out to start an...
  11. Do you think life is worth living if you're truly ugly?

    Member Polls
    It really doesn't seem worth it to me here are the reasons why: 1. Nobody will ever like you romantically so you're probably never going to be able to have biological kids and a family. 2. It's 200x harder to make friends than non-ugly people. 3. People treat you worse in public and even laugh...
  12. [ENTP] ENTP, do you get annoyed when people ignore you?

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    I can't stand it. I find it so annoying. :dry: Also do you guys overthink things sometimes?
  13. [ENFP] ENFP Who's Been Really Moody Lately?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Hi there! :) So, get this, okay? I'm usually very happy, cheerful, adaptable, talkative, and willing to listen to wide on theories that other people come up with. But...Jesus, I don't know what's wrong with me lately! One of my recent ex friends (ISTP) who doesn't care about anyone else's...
  14. Good bye

    We haven't seen each other since last October. You're the one who keeps making these plans and you seem to have an excuse every time for why we can't hang out, and I'm not stupid. I know a couple of times you blew me off simply to be with your boyfriend. You know, you must lack a lot of common...
  15. [ENFP] ENFP getting annoyed by friends! What to do?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    So I have just started going to a university in another state and the experience has been very interesting. It has made me realize more and more things about myself and just how different I am from the "norm." I have made some friends (two of them that I hang out with most often are INFPs) and...
  16. [ENFP] Tips for an ENFP in last year of school?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Hi, I am still a little new to this whole thing, so if there is any way I could talk to some more people, that would be awesome :) Anyway, I am in my final year of highschool, and honestly, the only thing that is getting me through it, is dreaming about what I can do afterwards. I'm big on the...
  17. Rant on life, to an unnamed individual

    Where to start. First off, I can't believe you. I can't believe that you can walk around so happy all the time and act like everything's fine when, if you knew what everyone else thought, you would realize you were wrong. Therein lies part of the problem though. You don't care what others think...
  18. [ESTP] ESTP w/social anxiety

    ESTP Forum - The Doers
    Its horrible, i used to be a blatent ESTP, i did things if i wanted to do something, instantly i would see the path on how to get there, no thinking required, i would be not loud but confident talkative sure of myself, show little empathy because my opinion was just get on with it! now since...
  19. The Evil Side of the ENFJ/ INFJ

    NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    I find ENFJ's and INFJ's to be extremely honest and blunt. My INFJ friend and I are incredibly similar we're almost perfectly similar except I'm a little more outgoing hense the 'E'. I love honesty, I hate ppl who are fake and can't just tell you how they really feel. I honestly don't take...
  20. [INFP] drives me crazy!

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    i know i'm not the only one. right now, in this point of my life, i'm not doing a whole lot on the whole "socially acceptable" grid of life. i don't go to college. it's been four years since i graduated high school and i havn't worked in over a year. i spend most of my days in my room on the...