I've been wondering about this for a long time, would be nice if someone could help out. There are 4 different attachment styles. I'm sure most of you know. Secure, anxious, avoidant and fearful. I've been told by a professional I'm a fearful type. It kind of makes sense. All my relationships...

Because a lot of other types have this and we don't. Every type needs to rant or post random thoughts sometimes. And this could be happy rants too, like "i'm so proud of my friend who asked this person out i've been encouraging them for years" or "thank goodness the DLC for FIFA 19 was only...

I'm currently seeing a guy who I am pretty sure is an ENFP (though it took me a while to really peg his functions), who seems to have an avoidant attachment style, while I am an INFJ with an anxious attachment style. Is there any way to make this work? I know I can consciously try and keep...

Is it even possible for an INFP to be carefree, always happy, never or rarely sad/worried? lol. It's more a rhetorical question. I think almost all of us do have worries, it's just a matter of how often and over what. I'm sure some can/do, but it seems INFPs just seem to get sad, worry...

Whether you are INFP or another type, I need your help and insight. I've just been through my 5th therapy session, and suddenly it went wrong. I am shy, anxious or fearful-avoidant attachment, sensitive (HSP), and have recently been having increased depression, social anxiety, and suicidal...

Whether you are INFP or another type, I need your help and insight. I've just been through my 5th therapy session, and it's suddenly gone all wrong. I am shy, anxious or fearful-avoidant attachment, sensitive (HSP), and have recently been having increased depression, social anxiety, and...

Hey so i'm in the IB program (international baccalaureate program) certificate (which is not as tedious, not dealing with EE's or IA's IOP's or CASEE) but still overwhelming work load. I have AP classes as well. Plus being a junior with the responsibility of SAT's and ACT's (plus the AP and IB...

Hi all, A friend of mine is doing an honours thesis for psyc and is investigating the impact of personality, self-esteem and attachment style on attraction. Ladies between 18 and 40 years of age are urgently needed to fill out a 15 minute survey! Please help out if you can :) it would be...

Are any other INFJs out there a bit jumpy? I definitely am. I often get very lost in my head; I'll be thinking very intensely about something, and then someone will interrupt my thoughts and give me a mini heart attack. I was wondering if any of you experience this as well. I have been compared...

I got an idea for this thread from the INTJ Females; if they have one why can't we? As an INTJ male, I find it difficult to be interested in typical masculine topics like sports, athletes, athletic activities, going to bars to talk to other men about attractive women, being wingmen, bar hopping...

Under what circumstances are you likely to get tongue-tied? "Tongue-tied" means stumbling over words or unintentionally saying the wrong words, rather than the usual INTP pauses for thought. Hang on, poll on the way.

For those of you who are familiar with Attachment Style Theory, what is your Attachment style? For those you who don't know, here's the Quiz Article on Attachment Style Theory

I'm interested in external and internal responses. When I'm around anxious people, my behavior by default goes totally cool and relaxed, but after a while I get internally uncomfortable. Like I tend to be the level-headed person under extreme circumstances when people panic. However, when...

Hi guys this is my first post on here and I'm finally reaching out. im a ENFP girl and mid 20s. Usually I am bubbly, I'm good looking in society's norm, pie appear confident and outspoken and social on my High days, and my friends can never tell I have these issues and don't understand how bad...

Hello everyone. I've been wondering for a while how many other people pace a lot during the day. I never really notice when I do it but many people tell I do it often. I can't really keep still when I'm standing either. I know I'm a very anxious person so I don't know if its mostly INFP thing or...

I've been having a problem that has been worsening lately, and I'm not sure what to do about it. Throughout the day, no matter where I am or what I'm doing, I'll find myself involuntarily clenching my stomach muscles and holding them that way indefinitely. It's causes soreness and, just after...