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  1. [INTJ] Misunderstood as arrogant

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Hey everyone, I've been placed in a situation where my family have lectured me claiming that I'm arrogant. In these lectures, I can't give my own perspective of the situations that they reference as it's labelled as back-chatting, being rude and not being respectful. I genuinely don't try...
  2. [INTJ] INTJs and arrogance

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Hey there, mainly posting for a friend, but I've been noticing a pattern and got curious. It's about INTJs and arrogance problems. My personal experience in short: I had a friend who claimed he was fully matured at 16 because: "INTJs' only problem is their arrogance, but I'm not arrogant so I'm...
  3. Do I Need Validation or Not? Written Dec 21 2016

    I thought, just after getting off-line last night, about writing that I need validation, and that the person who gives me that is going to get closer to me than anyone else, or words very close to that. But it isn't accurate. I thought about the word and the meaning of the word...
  4. [INTJ] Do INTJs find low confidence unattractive?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    I know I'm an INTJ and many MBTI sources describe the INTJ to be arrogant/confident (though the MBTI description honestly doesn't mean that much---that's really a discussion for another time) but I can't help but notice that it's statistically significant among INTJs (at least online) so just...
  5. [ENTP] Fake Modesty?

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    Hi, Do any of you other ENTPs ever find yourself pretending to be modest in order to get more satisfaction out of stating your accomplishments later on? Do you ever tend to brag a lot or do you avoid bragging? Would you consider yourself arrogant? Sometimes I downplay my own achievements so...
  6. Why do introverts hate extroverts so much!?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    Some introverts believe theyre superior, as I've observed, so i decided to google extroversion. On urban dictionary the definitions for "extrovert" were stuff like "Brainless drunk guys who screw everyone in sight and get laid and poor and dumb and useless and fuck everyone whos extroverted...
  7. [INTP] Are you confrontational/argumentative?

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    ...and indiscriminate with the people whom you correct? Regardless of the position they're in (boss, parent, social superior) relative to you? Did you get in trouble with parents or authority figures for informing them of their incorrectness even though it is "not your place"? Did it bother you...