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  1. [ENFP] How Do You Show Love?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I'm talking specifically about how they show love to romantic partners. I've been dating an ENFP for a few months now. I'm not really well aquainted with the dating or romance world, but if I had to read the situation for my own perspective, I'd say he isn't there yet. But I don't exactly...
  2. [INFP] Any INFPs Find That They Enjoy Flirting?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I didn't really know this about me. I'm a female INFP. But i noticed I like the challenge. But I wont do it directly. I'm a bit of coward that way where if i see them, my mind doesn't think of how to do it well. But say indirectly, like through body language or text, i can. I find through...
  3. Does Prolonged Eye Contact Mean Anything?

    Sex and Relationships
    Hear me out. We were both sitting down at desks. This guy in my class (not high school), caught me looking at him, i'm a creep and do it accidentally. To my surprise he didn't look away like it was nothing and held eye contact with me for like four seconds straight. So we were just staring at...
  4. Would you say you are attractive and how do you feel about it?

    Sex and Relationships
    I feel like I can confidently say I'm pretty, whether or not or I'd go a step farther and say that I'm hot I think depends on the person, Although I have been told that. And like yes, on the one hand, who's going to complain about that? But on the other, sometimes I feel like it creates this...
  5. I feel attracted to my boss. Some tips how to deal with it?

    Sex and Relationships
    I feel attracted to my boss and I don't want to. Simply because I have no desire or interest to develop my attraction into something more and I want to keep our relationship only on a professional level (I don't even know if he is married, in relationship etc.). I feel very uncomfortable about...
  6. What is your attraction spectrum? Do you have a specific physical type?

    Sex and Relationships
    What is your attraction spectrum? What types of people are you attracted to? What is your range? Or do you have a specific physical type? My preferences: I don't have a specific physical type that I'm attracted to, but IRL I'm probably drawn more to the guys with dark hair, brown eyes, & a...
  7. [INTJ] INTJ's what constitutes a "connection" for you? How do you know you have chemistry?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    INTJ's what constitutes a "connection" for you? How do you know you have chemistry? My fellow INTJ's what constitutes a "connection" for you? How do you know you have chemistry with someone & are clicking or hitting it off with them? Please describe your experience with either a platonic, or...
  8. Single women more interested in taken man than single man. But why?

    Sex and Relationships
    In 2009, a scientific study appeared in the peer-reviewed Journal Of Experimental Social Psychology. Titled "Who's Chasing Whom?: The Impact Of Gender And Relationship Status On Mate Poaching". I present the study here to solicit PerC user's opinions about a key finding in the study's results...
  9. [ENFJ] What can this all mean?

    ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    Once again I'm turning to you for some help. If you want to know a bit of a backstory, you can read through this thread: Short story - there's one ENFJ in my life who I just can't seem to figure out. Therefore I'd...
  10. [ENFJ] Can ENFJs change their feeling about someone with time?

    ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    I orginally asked this question on this thread: (sorry it's not a full link, I don't have enough posts yet to copy links here) But I haven't had any replies there so I decided to make a new thread about this. So, basically...
  11. NF's: Which Type Are You Most Attracted To?

    NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    Yes, it's time for your one and only dose of romance for the day. I kid. I'm sure as romanticists of the MBTI your romance lives are rocketed daily with novels starring fictional heroins and the tragic heroic prince and the sugar plum fairy and the falling star all of which end in a marriage...
  12. [INTJ] Are These Signs Of An INTJ Being Interested?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Was hoping I could ask for a list, but I realized how hard that would be to do out of thin air. So I think this INTJ guy I'm friends with might be interested in me, but not too sure. This guy has well developed Fi so its especially difficult to tell. Ive made a checklist. Please check "X"...
  13. Who Is Usually Attracted To The Other First In ENFP and INTJ Relationships?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    Just wondering because this pairing holds quite opposite characteristics yet whilst there is still potential for conflict, they compliment each other well. But I can't tell who is the first to take the compliment if you catch me drift.
  14. I take the initiative and still get rejected. Why?

    Sex and Relationships
    I am the type of girl that is brave enough to make the first move, ask a guy out, etc. In fact, I am the one to usually approach them and make the first move. I present myself well and am personable and fun, according to the people that know me. People have said that I am quite attractive and...
  15. [ENFP] ISTJ pining after ENFP

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Hello, I am an ISTJ and I'm pining for an ENFP. Here is the backstory: ENFP and I met in class at college, became friendly acquaintances (would sit together in class and chat). We both ended up at the same gig one night, ended up quite drunk by the end of the night and hooked-up. She said it...
  16. Is a strong "spark" necessary for a relationship?

    Sex and Relationships
    I am in my first dating relationship right now, which has been official for a couple of months now. We'd been talking for about half a year before we started dating. During those "pre-dating" months, I was also talking to a couple of other women that I was interested in. For various reasons, the...
  17. Sexual Attraction

    Sex and Relationships
    How can you tell if you feel sexual attraction towards someone? To be honest, I'm confused. :confused2: People say that you just *know* if you do, but their descriptions are too vague and it makes me even more confused. Thank you!
  18. [INTJ] INTJs are Sexy?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    [Other Types are absolutely welcome] Background: I have happened upon a considerable amount of reading lately (such as this survey, blog posts on tumblr, and even some polls on this site) wherein INTJs were frequently rated as being very attractive by other types. I have been experiencing...
  19. [ISFP] How to Make an ISFP Fall in L-O-V-E?

    ISFP Forum - The Artists
    I've seen this question pasted on some different forum, and my reaction was to laugh cynically, that it can't be done. Obviously, I can't speak for everybody, but for me, I either have an immediate chemistry with someone, that's a quick spark and I fall in love generally fast and hard, or...
  20. INTPs and ISTPs: Relationship Dynamic Differences between the Ti-dominants

    Sex and Relationships
    Hey, all, After a lot of perusing of various threads on a number of forums out of curiosity on the typical relationship dynamics of each of these types, I felt like the specific differences the aux-Ne-tert-Si and aux-Se-tert-Ni produces in a relationship context could be an interesting topic of...