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  1. Sex and Relationships
    Hey, all, After a lot of perusing of various threads on a number of forums out of curiosity on the typical relationship dynamics of each of these types, I felt like the specific differences the aux-Ne-tert-Si and aux-Se-tert-Ni produces in a relationship context could be an interesting topic of...
  2. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Hi guys, There's a slightly older ENFP colleague at work who i'm interested in but I have no idea if the feelings are mutual. Because he's older, I feel that he tries to be careful not to show interest but i've noticed a few signs that indicates he might be: -He's glances over at me a lot...
  3. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    This is kind of a follow-up to my previous poll about which type would make an ideal romantic partner for the INFP. So, INFPs--which type are you most attracted to? Not who would be the best fit for a long-term relationship or who you know you have a lot of compatibility with. Rather, which...
  4. INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Not saying that thinking equates to attraction or anything but when you find out that someone has a crush on you, do you sense it and become highly uncomfortable? Or do you think about the person and why they might be interested? I myself would usually become so uncomfortable to the point...
  5. Sex and Relationships
    I've noticed a pattern with myself and it's really frustrating: When someone hits on me, my first reaction generally is, that I'm not interested. Because I'm always scared that the first impression can be very wrong and I hate confrontation later, so I tend to avoid it. So even when I get...
  6. ESFP Forum - The Performers
    I've noticed a pattern with myself and it's really frustrating: When someone hits on me, my first reaction generally is, that I'm not interested. Because I'm always scared that the first impression can be very wrong and I hate confrontation later, so I tend to avoid it. So even when I get...
  7. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    and what types tend to like or be attracted to a female intp?
  8. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Hello all you lovely enfp males! I would oh so appreciate your insight on this subject, and would love you to the moon and back! As much as I pride myself on being able to read people, I just can't tell if he is just really kind to me (I've had a rough patch recently... Maybe he felt sorry...
  9. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I've seen one too many topics about this. The fact of the matter is, YES, I am drawn to an INTJ. Not infatuation, love, or lust (okay maybe just a little). Just this strange, unexplainable "magnetic attraction" as some would say. I try to explain it the best I can but just can't quite wrap my...
  10. Blog
    This is not a be all end all guide to courtship, rather just a post exploring my own experiences, thoughts, and past pertaining to courtship; in particular, the type of women who wants and appreciates the masculine in heterosexual relationships. Firstly, let’s establish that there are many...
  11. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    I am an INFJ and I currently like an INTP (he confirmed his personality type himself). I wanted to ask what you INTPs (preferably male) do when you like someone.
  12. General Psychology
    Wanted to share this interesting piece: I disagree with the author on one point: I think women won't go for a guy they find butt ugly -- even if he's managed to land the next Cindy Crawford. They have to find him attractive in the first place in order for this attraction by association effect...
  13. Myers Briggs Forum
    Attraction as Energy Cycling and Frequency Raising in Personalities & Love Languages All physical manifestations are the result of energy states. This appears to apply to human attractions as well. The emotional energy cycling between two people drives the frequency, and the stronger frequency...
  14. NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects
    I constantly hear and read about the "ultimate pairing" of the ENTP with the INFJ personalities. I must admit, the friends of mine who are ENTPs are the ones with which I get along most effortlessly. However, I have never explicitly asked them what their opinions are in INFJs and why they may...
  15. ISTP Forum - The Mechanics
    Go easy on me, my first post! Feeling slightly awkward asking about this... I'm INTP married to ISTP. For years we thought we were both INTP, but he has definite S tendencies! It might be a close thing either way. He loves the thrill of fast cars, bikes, boats, and will always want to FIX a...
  16. ISFP Forum - The Artists
    In general. As an INTJ, I'm attracted to charming ISFPs. And some artisty, stylish, good-looking, charming ISFPs are attracted to me. I just don't understand why the playful, fun and charming ISFPs would be attracted to me (INTJ) even though I'm a nerd?
  17. INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    In my personal experience, I tend to attract I_F_s, mainly people I think are introverted feeling dominants (ISFP/INFP). Does anyone else notice any tends on the specific (suspected) MBTI types of the people they tend attract in their lives?
  18. ISFP Forum - The Artists
    hey my dear ISFPs, could you help me figure this ISFP male out? His behaviour is quite confusing, especially since I can usually read people well (as an ENFP). So we work together. In the beginning we didn't talk to each other much as he is a rather quiet person in general and I was a bit...
  19. Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    Awhile ago I read about the Enneagram and discovered that I am very strongly a Type 4. But as a Type 4, I wonder (and worry) what could other types possibly find attractive about this type. Please don't misunderstand me, I would never actually want to be another type, but as a Type 4, I feel...
  20. Sex and Relationships
    So I was going through Personality Cafe and I read this quote http://personalitycafe.com/infp-forum-idealists/15389-best-romantic-match-infp-14.html So I figured that people could post their observations on here and INFPs can write about their preferences/ experiences with different types. So...
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