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  1. ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    Hello ISFJ's! So I am an ESFP who is crushing big time on an ISFJ (aren't our types supposed to make like a good pairing or something? Ha.). My only problem with this is that I cannot tell if their behavior is because they have a crush on me too or if it's just part of ISFJ-ness. Several things...
  2. Myers Briggs Forum
    So I just made this to ask fellow ENFPs a question... Are you really horny a lot? For me anyway, I find that yeah I am really horny a lot! I'm not really horny in the sort of "I want to have sex" sort of want, it's more like I want to have a passionate, beautiful, sexy moment. Sometimes it has...
  3. ISFP Forum - The Artists
    Hello fellow isfps, anyone and everyone. For some reason I've really been trying to figure out this one guys MBTI (with out him taking the test and such) and at first I thought maybe he's a thinker because he's smart and doesn't show much feeler in him and maybe extroverted with little...
  4. ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    1. What is it that you derive your masculinity from? 2. What are the behaviors that women (or other men, if you're gay) engage in that make you feel appreciated?
  5. General Psychology
    This episode of Dnews talks about an interesting typology for people...who we are attracted to being influenced by our personality type according to certain chemicals our brains produce more of. I'm not sure what to think of this yet, and am pondering the subject now, but I'd be interested in...
  6. ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    I'm attracted in a strange way to other people, and I'm wondering if any ISFJs are the same way. I'm attracted mostly to the way people act. Like in the way they walk, and the way they laugh, and the way they look at things or the way they touch things. Maybe it's a super Si thing... I don't...
  7. Cognitive Functions
    Hi all, A friend of mine is doing an honours thesis for psyc and is investigating the impact of personality, self-esteem and attachment style on attraction. Ladies between 18 and 40 years of age are urgently needed to fill out a 15 minute survey! Please help out if you can :) it would be...
  8. ESTJ Forum - The Guardians
    I am an intj women and I tend to be attracted estj men. I was wondering about what most estj men think about intj females.
  9. Myers Briggs Forum
    The search function tells me there's a thread on this, but I didn't want to necromance it up, and it wasn't exactly what I intended anyway :tongue: In your experience: (1) how do the different types flirt (No need to cover all the types unless you know that from experience, ofc) and (2) what...
  10. Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    Okay I feel really weird asking this about my own type but I honestly have no clue. There's this guy I'm attracted to and I'm absolutely sure he's a 4 (180%). So then this thread will consist of two questions I'd really appreciate answers to. 1. How do you know if he's attracted to you? 2...
  11. Sex and Relationships
    I find myself intensely attracted to someone much older than me - and I am SO drawn to him. He isn't someone I might typically find super attractive - but I am. In my situation it's not appropriate for me to pursue it - not over the next few months anyway - but I sense we both feel it - it's in...
  12. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    We work mainly with our top 3 functions - for an INFJ it would be Ni, Fe, and Ti. I have a theory that we are attracted to people who have our inferior functions. It seems like it tends to be 4-8 in descending order. So for me, I would be attracted to Se, Ne, Fi, Te, and Si in that order. There...
  13. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    It's different for everyone, but I'd like to think there is some common ground for personalities as to what they find romantic and passionate... What gestures, actions, words, do you find romantic? What in a person or what can a person do that really does it for you? What is your ideal date...
  14. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I've been reading books on Buddhism lately, and I've learned a ton of very mind-altering perspectives that have simply allowed me to insure and ensure the happiness of my future. In this case I want to mention how fulfillment in my relationships has become i(e)nsured from these principles. I...
  15. Sex and Relationships
    My friend read an article on this topic and asked for my feedback: I agree with certain points and disagree with others. It's true that when you've never met someone, you tend to characterize him or her based on physical appearance, as that's all you have to go by. But I firmly disagree with...
  16. Blog
    So, I've liked someone for a year now and every week I have been meaning to ask him out. But the problem is, I only see him once a week usually and often, like today, it's just not possible to approach him. I mean, he's the nicest guy ever but I don't want to seem creepy. I even fear I've...
  17. ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    I have this ESTP girl as one of my closest platonic friends in college. Naturally being an ENTP we'd get into all sorts of shenanigans and questionable but exciting activities (longboarding around campus at dawn, getting drunk the day before finals, climbing into restricted areas, etc.). Come to...
  18. ESTP Forum - The Doers
    I have this ESTP girl as one of my closest platonic friends in college. Naturally being an ENTP we'd get into all sorts of shenanigans and questionable but exciting activities (longboarding around campus at dawn, getting drunk the day before finals, climbing into restricted areas, etc.). Come to...
  19. Myers Briggs Forum
    According to MBTI INxJs are the most suitable partners for ENFP. Do any of you ENFPs have dating experience with them? And what was the best and worst MBTI type you dated? 1) I have dated a guy whose type I don't know. He was a bit drama & snob-ish, chaotic and studied enginieering. He would do...
  20. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Recently, I attended a parade. While there, a girl on the other side of the street caught my attention. This is strange since you barely ever even look at the other side since you're so focused on the parade. I watched her and was held captive by her aura for the remainder of the parade. She...
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