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  1. ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    Hi dear Members, especially ISFJs I'm a newbie, both at the Cafe and mbti. It has been a couple of weeks I learned about the 16 personalities and eversince have thrown myself into the subject. After a 5 year long relationship with my dear ISFJ there is still a lot to learn and the pieces are...
  2. ISFP Forum - The Artists
    I just want to get my English BA degree in college and get it over with ASAP with the best possible results. Can you give me advice? Also, my mom won't pay for more than one extra semester, and she's the main one paying for it. I'm a college senior with an English major and a music minor. I've...
  3. Type 6 Forum - The Loyalist
    Dear sixes, and non-sixes Life is a complex little mess and sometimes what can seem crystal clear to one person may be a murky kiddie pool to another. What seems undoubtedly right for one is unacceptable for another. You probably get the gist... Now, I have for you one of these kiddie pools...
  4. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    So as of the last year or so, after quite a few years of hard work and research that i've put in, I've reached a conclusion that I am suffering from what's called C-PTSD. I certainly have a narcissist (or someone that suffers from narcissism) in my life, and that person is my father (and others...
  5. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hi! My very first post here. English is not my native language, but I'll try my best. Maybe I have found right place. Considering myself as a very private person. Not feeling comfortable to show emotions, I do appear cold or in-genuine in public. Having problems to get know by people, bound and...
  6. ISFP Forum - The Artists
    I'm a 20 year old ISFP college student, and this past year, I don't know why, but I have felt hopelessly bored and lazy. It's like every time I do work really hard to achieve a purpose or goal that I become passionate about and truly want for myself, and then fail, I go into an apathetic and...
  7. ISFP Forum - The Artists
    I'm a twenty year old ISFP college sophomore student, and I have been struggling with motivation and caring about school since last year, and I don't totally know why. Last year, I was really excited to be auditioning for vocal performance at my school, and I was rejected. Since then, I have...
  8. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hey all, I've been hovering around these forums for a while and honestly, reading comments from people who so are similar to me is blessing, it truly warms my heart and brings me comfort, as an INFP in the real world. Even just discovering my type has been a blessing, I no longer feel like such...
  9. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    It's been a problem I keep avoiding but it seems that INFPs (or at least me) don't really understand what they're aiming for when in a conflict, which obviously makes conflict resolution almost impossible and then makes them want to avoid conflict in the future. Let's once and for all get our...
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    I am without strength in the midst of this sickness I despair long hours in a fog of great thickness A parasitic tumour eats away at my resolve Devours my energy, makes my liveliness dissolve All around me a static humming An unchanging, unfilled void When my strength reserves are sapped My only...
  11. INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    I am an ENFP who has a friends with benefits relationship with an INTJ. We have mindblowing monogamous sex-- the best I've ever had (and I am middle aged), and then he disappears in that I don't hear from him for days. I am not looking for a husband, a live-in or someone to go out with a lot. I...
  12. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    You have probably heard of the word 'introspection' before, and as an introvert probably thougth that it must be important to you. It seems the concept of 'introspection' however, is outdated and there is a whole new philosophy outrospection; the polar opposite of introspection. According to...
  13. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I have lately been avoiding close contact with anyone. For an SX Type 4 this comes off as a weird behaviour. I have always wanted new relationships, friendships to get intense and when it has been a while I simply want to leave and run. My best friend of 11 years is in a different city and I...
  14. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    It seems that a standard characteristic of many INTPs that is displayed on our personality profiles is the tendency to avoid conflict. I can relate to this, though I do have the urge to correct people when they are wrong sometimes. But in terms of more large-scale things, do INTPs tend to...
  15. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I really, really don't want to sound biased, but I have not yet met an ISTJ that I can understand and completely get along with. Parents, friends, parents of friends... I just can't seem to "get" how their mind works. One of my closest friends is an ISTJ, but recently I found out that she is...
  16. ESFP Forum - The Performers
    I am an ENFP who was in a very serious relationship with an ESFP. It actually worked really well. It was a mutually very loving relationship, and we were told that we were very inspiring as a couple. I eventually moved to a different city, but would see her on the weekends. We messaged/talked...
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