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  1. Why does modern culture look down upon marriage so much?

    Sex and Relationships
    I'm only 19, so I can't say that I know much about life; yet something that really bothers me about our time is how much marriage is seen as something you probably shouldn't do. I understand that it can romanticized far too much and that it's far from perfect. However, whenever I see videos...
  2. [INFP] What are your problems, socially?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Reading up on Infps and meeting them, most do tend to find themselves to be socially awkward (although you know, im sure theres some who dont). Im trying to understand where Infp social problems stem from exactly in relation to their function stack.
  3. [INTP] Do You Have A Good Memory?

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Despite what’s said about intps and tertiary Si, when it comes to knowing yourself, do you feel like you have a good or bad memory? Especially in terms of not putting in a conscious effort to remember something, do you find it easy to recall things.
  4. The Venting Thread for INFJs

  5. Test I have to find out if someone is a good person or a psycho

    This is completely not professional nor based on any scientific sources. I just wanted to share the way I use my NF skills to assess new people in my life (real life or close friends) to make sure if I can trust them or not. Thing is as an INFP I'm very open, naive and idealistic. My trust is...
  6. [ENFP] Good and Bad things about an ENFP

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Pretty self explanatory. This might sound like my last post but anyway I'll start.. (:joyous:)I love connecting with people and how people open up to me so easily. (:rolleyes:) I sorta hate being too emotional sometimes..
  7. [Enneagram Type 1] Gamers: Good or Evil?

    Type 1 Forum - The Reformer
    I started a similar (okay, virtually identical) thread on the INFJ section of the site, but I thought responses here would be interesting as well. I'm not starting a debate as to whether or not gaming/gamers are good or bad, because the answer is obvious :wink: What I am curious about is, for...
  8. [INTJ] Feeling very bad about a bad first date as an INTJ, could use advice.

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Sorry for the wall of text in advance. I'm 32, Male, I work in a mostly male environment and I have had honestly no more than 2 dates in my entire life, one of them being last Friday with pretty much the best my work place has to offer. There's this girl at work I started talking with...
  9. [INFJ] Is there anyone here who thinks this as well?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Lately I feel that my path is to tell people that life is not meant to become a predominantly good place, though it seems that is where we are all trying to head to? I feel that I am already detached from reality, so I don’t bother with the established systems. But I feel that my niche would be...
  10. What is the personality type you get on best/worst with?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    I'm curious, what is the personality type that you click with and the one that you cannot get along with? I'm an INFJ, and I seem to get on best with ENTP/INFJ and I don't really get on with ISTJ's. Nothing against them, I just find the ease with which they will hurt or argue with you very hard...
  11. What is the personality type you get on best/worst with?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    I'm curious, what is the personality type that you click with and the one that you cannot get along with?
  12. [INTP] INTP, explosive anger

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Hey, I'm a 20 year old male INTP. My Father is an ENTJ with a bad temper and my Mother is an ESFJ. When I was younger I also had a bad temper, but during my teenage years I became more brooding, and had a very depersonalised sense of the world. I was going through a depression stage, but when I...
  13. [INFP] "Bad" INFPs?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    While I was looking online at INFP celebrities, who are all pretty cool to be honest, I noticed that no there were no "bad" people, like murderers or something. Are we basically like the least likely personality type to kill people or just commit violent acts against other human beings? Do any...
  14. [INTP] Retarded introverted sensing

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    My, could be wrong, understanding of introverted sensing is that it's related to the past and learning form it and also internalizing cultural norms. But, in my opinion at least, there are a lot social expectations that should not be followed without questioning. Recently I have been overly...
  15. [INFJ] GM Foods, good or bad?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Wrote this in the midst of procrastinating study for a political geography course, insert thoughts, questions and whatnot in the comment section below! After searching for hours for any scientific study concluding negative side effects or health issues arising from GM foods, I have concluded...
  16. The evil works

    I just realized a simple version to corrupt an unfortunate soul and possible derive yourself into a hell of making negativity around you. Everyone has a bad side to them apply the right amount of confidence and dislike and the person in question will reveal their bad side towards you and if you...
  17. [ENTP] Bad mood insta cure

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    So obviously when people are in a bad mood they are really hard to handle with. But even if I try my hardest to interact nicely with others when I'm in a bad mood it seems like my bluntness shines through more than usually and it feels like every d*mn person is a enemy only out to start an...
  18. [INFP] Preferences In Men and Women

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    What types do you usually go for and why? Have you ever been in a relationship that you'd consider satisfying? if not, then why? I've always had a strong attraction for extraverted types. They give off this electric static infused with confidence(not all) when I'm around one that I find...
  19. My ESFP cousin gets on my nerves!!!

    SP's Temperament Forum- The Creators
    I'm an INFJ and my cousin two years younger than me is an ESFP. She is almost ALL of my pet peeves. I'm a perfectionist and I get straight A's in school. I focus on the future. I always tell people that I'm not just going to school to just go to school. I'm going to school to give myself...
  20. [ENFP] Bad Pick-Up Lines That Make You Smile

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Here are some famous ones I liked: "I’m attracted to you so strongly, scientists will have to develop a fifth fundamental force." " I’ll give you five seconds to give me your number or you can forget about going out with me forever!" "Baby did you fart, ’cause you blow me away!" (LOL WUT?!) Etc...