betrayal

What Happens When An INTJ Stops Caring? What do you do? me: 1. As simple as turning off a light switch and leaving the room. The part of an INTJ that matters is simply gone. 2. When an INTJ stops caring, then an INTJ stops trusting. Or Vs Vs. Then. . . #1. 3. When an INTJ stops caring...

What HappensWhen An INTJ Is Betrayed?:crazy: Betrayed in a relationship, at work, with a "friend", with anyone, by life? Do you walk away? Do you go nuclear? Do you get even? What do you do?

How long do you tend to hold grudges for? Is forgiveness plausible most of the time? And the fun part: revenge. I'm the type of person who's pretty relaxed and it's very hard to push my buttons. But once you do, i basically erupt and either you get one warning or you get kicked out of my life...

Like the word symbol love in Greek, I have different levels, really, of who I will consider a friend, but the majority will fall much closer to "acquaintance", i.e. someone certainly not an enemy; someone I can exchange banter with, even admit I am having a hard day, and I'll listen to him...

I have ENTJ in my team on a project (my idea, my team, developed under my leadership). However it seems that whenever he gets the chance almost/totally neglectaes mentioning anyone associated with the project and takes credit for himself. I just found out about this from an interview. I feel...

"Even you my Brutus." It reached a point once when I abandoned everyone for my own sake. This it would seem was the greatest crime. That I'd walk away from them for my own sake, to do my own things, and I did not even care to say goodbye. Or was it that I had walked out of the life that they...

I had a friend that I thought I'd someday be sharing a retirement home with completely, irreparably cut me out of her life. I thought I'd eventually get over it, but it's been 5 years now, and I still can't let my guard down enough to make more friends. Getting hit right in the INTJ loyalty is...

Been going through some majorly shitty stuff lately. Just found out that my (now ex) boyfriend of 8 years has been cheating on me for a second time. It was bad enough that he withheld sex from me for two months and then the other day I find a condom wrapper in his car. We have a 7 year old...

Hi! Let me tell you the story of these two and how their problems began: She is a 7w8 (ENTP) girl and she is very confident, outgoing and eccentric. He is a 5w4 (INFJ) guy and he is a little insecure, shy and tame. They both are very intelligent, non-conformists, eloqent and creative. They are...

Hi! Let me tell you the story of these two and how their problems began: She is a 7w8 (ENTP) girl and she is very confident, outgoing and eccentric. He is a 5w4 (INFJ) guy and he is a little insecure, shy and tame. They both are very intelligent, non-conformists, eloqent and creative. They are...

Hey INFJ's, you beautiful people that you are. We are emotional creatures and I don't know about you guys, but I find a certain beauty in sadness. I'm drawn to it, like I'm drawn to deep anger, hurt and betrayal as an artistic form. I like to empathise with it, understand it and feel it. I...

Hi there, Im Elizabeth and i joined personality cafe because i need urgent help . So Lets get to the point . I have an ISTP best friend which i met 5 years ago in highschool .We decided to do youtube music covers for one time until she claimed to have lost interest . We got...

Why can't people who used to call themselves my "friends" ever think of their actions and consequences before they do it? They always expect me to forgive them after the fact when they do what they want at the time. Some people have even told me I'm making a big deal out of nothing. I don't...

How can someone move on with their lives without looking back once as to how poorly they treated people? I'm not talking about a guy but "friends." They keep having fun not caring how damaged they did someone who suffers. The only thing I can do is just tell myself to preoccupy my mind with...

How do we survive the betrayal and come out as we were or at least no worse off? I am trying to process a very close friend betraying my trust. I am at a point where I can see it going both ways. I love my friend dearly and I miss what we had. I don't have a lot of friends I can be completely...

So I try to be a kind open-minded person to everyone. I try to be tolerable to all people, treat everyone with respect. Despite all of that, I do have a breaking point. When I've been around someone for to long or someone says something with a certain look on their face that irks me! I have...

So I was goin out with an INFP and right from the start the chemistry was good. After about a month she jus decides to back out saying we should just be friends then changes her mind again saying we should take it slow. Flaky. Confusing. Totally blindsided me as it came out of nowhere. It was...

In the http://personalitycafe.com/infj-forum-protectors/6359-you-know-youre-infj-when-4.html thread there are a lot of mentions of forgiveness and betrayal. What do the concepts of forgiveness and betrayal mean to you?