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  1. Hey Guys

    It's me, another infp female. But look, I mainly joined this thing to get some insight on the always entertaining entjs. I live in the USA, raised by a single mom istj and brought up with a younger sister, an estj. Found myself an entj boyfriend that actually likes me and I really feel so...
  2. [INFP] Relationship advice for INFP's in need!

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    So, just starting this. I have a major problem. I fell out of love with my boyfriend and I don't know what to do. It's not like anything was wrong. I just... don't feel it anymore. And I feel so bad. I fell for him really fast, and my heart fluttered for everything he did, but... omg I feel...
  3. [INFP] How did you meet the person you care most about?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    The more detail the better!
  4. Escaping the Friend Zone: your stories and perspectives

    Sex and Relationships
    When I was 17 I befriended a girl at my high school. She was 15. Tall and blonde. In the theatre department, just like me. Fun, smart, very sweet. Probably an ENFP. Really liked her as a friend, but in no way thought of her as a girlfriend. Something about her didn't allow me to consider her...
  5. [ISTP] INFJ having problems with ISTP partner

    ISTP Forum - The Mechanics
    Hi all, I'm an INFJ and have been with my ISTP boyfriend for a year and a half now. Two months into our relationship, he went travelling, and I found out when he got back that he had kissed another girl when he was drunk. He had also been messaging other girls inappropriately. He told me it...
  6. [ESFJ] ESFJs, how you do know you have fallen in love?

    ESFJ Forum - The Caregivers
    Maybe this is a weird question, I dont know. People enter my heart almost immediately and become important to me. When I get to know somebody knew I want to spend a lot of time with them and I think about them a lot. Honestly, how do I know the difference to when I fall in love? I sometimes...
  7. Boyfriend Extremely Lonely

    Advice Center
    This has been an issue for awhile, but most advice I’ve read has suggested that he will find his own way out of it and to just be supportive/understanding of his situation. Unfortunately, I’ve been doing exactly that, and there’s no sign of changes. I’m suspecting that that advice might not...
  8. [ENFJ] How to help my ENFJ boyfriend finding motivation

    ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    Dear ENFJs, I'm an ISTJ and I would really like to have a piece of advice from you: my ENFJ boyfriend asked me to help him find the right motivation to finish the last 6 months of his internship (he’s doing a 18 months internship at a law firm) and then the bar exam. I am still finishing my law...
  9. [INFP] When does a ESTJ man commit?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hello everyone! I am an INFP female and dating an ESTJ man since about six months. He lives in another country (one hour with airplane away) and we text each other almost every day. We have really good conversations and we can talk about a lot together. We got known to each other because we...
  10. [ESTJ] When does ESTJ man commit?

    ESTJ Forum - The Guardians
    Hello everyone! I am an INFP female and dating an ESTJ man since about six months. He lives in another country (one hour with airplane away) and we text each other almost every day. We have really good conversations and we can talk about a lot together. We got known to each other because we...
  11. Is my ENFJ boyfriend emotionally manipulating me?

    NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    Is my ENFJ boyfriend manipulating my emotions? Hello! This is my first post and I was really hoping I could get some advice for my relationship. I feel uncomfortable talking about this with people I know personally. (Also I’m sorry for my crappy writing skills lol) So my boyfriend is an...
  12. [INFP] Difficult relationship with father

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hello everyone! I am not sure if this is a topic that fits well into the INFP category because it could actually concern everyone, but I hope this is still a good place to write this :) The main problem is that since i was a young child i have always had problems with my dad. I know that deep...
  13. [ESTP] How can I (ISTJ) show my ex (ESTP) I’m worth a second chance?

    ESTP Forum - The Doers
    I admitted to him a week ago that I regret breaking up with him a year ago and want to give us another chance and he's been thinking about it. Questions… (a)What would an ESTP be looking for in his ex to help solidify his decision to give her a second chance? (b)What could the ex do as the...
  14. question about my boyfriend from an infj girl

    i've never made a post on here before, but i'll keep this as brief as possible. i've known my boyfriend for 3 years, been close friends/liked him for a year, and we've been dating a month. i want to ask him to take the mbti test (specifically the 16personalities one) because ever since we...
  15. ENTJ Relationship Anxiety

    Myers Briggs Forum
    Hello, I am in a relationship with an ISFP (Shocking, I know!). He really makes me happy and I know that I make him very happy. I also know that there is great natural potential for growth, and this makes me excited. However I can't help but be very very stressed about 1.) relationships in...
  16. [INTJ] Broke up with ESTJ, do I go back?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Broke up with ESTJ - Do I go back?!? Background: I'm currently in my early 20s and have shied away from serious relationships (all have usually been casual sexual encounters). I somehow attract attention, but have a very hard time opening up and connecting to people emotionally and mentally...
  17. [INFJ] ENFP boyfriend socially awkward

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
  18. [INTJ] I Betrayed My INTJ GF's Trust By Snooping Around Her Social Media

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Hi personalitycafe, I'm an entj male in a relationship with an intj female for about a year now, and am currently in deep shit. My gf is an active social media user, especially on twitter, and she had had 2 twitter accounts, both for different purposes, before we got together. She knew that I...
  19. My boyfriend has really bad hygiene. What do I do?

    Sex and Relationships
    He didn't always smell like this. There was a time where he was really clean and smelled really good. But now, he smells like he hasn't showered in days. He raises his arms and I get a huge whiff of bad BO, his breath isn't good either and I can't even kiss him. His hair is very greasy now, I...
  20. [ENFJ] How do you act if your crush has a boyfriend?

    ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    Hello Guys, I’ve got some questions about ENFJ’s. 1. How do you act if your crush has a boyfriend? Do you hide it? 2. Do you Guys can actually see if someone got a crush on you (because of your Fe)? I’ve met an ENFJ and we talked a long time to each other. Well and now I’ve got a crush on...