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  1. How to get over him once and for all

    Advice Center
    I dated this guy, who was my friend first, and we went on 2 dates. On the first date, we had good chemistry and we could find lots to talk about. We laughed a lot and exchanged some playful banter. I texted him, thanking him for the date, and invited him out for the second date a few days later...
  2. [ENTP] F. 17. New here. Introduction. Am I just weird and alone or....??

    Hiya, just joined today. Not sure if this website is dead or not. I've known that I'm an ENTP for a long time and fit all of the functions but don't fit into the awkward/gamer/tomboyish stereotype. I'm not awkward (anymore), I learned how to manipulate social situations through a lot of...
  3. Men don't choose me?

    Sex and Relationships
    I need some advice. I want to know why every time I like a guy, they always choose another girl over me. She always is the "sexy" type and I'm just not that kind of girl. It makes me really upset. People say I'm good-looking, funny, and nice, but boys don't even make a move on me or look at me...
  4. Guys who play Video Games

    Sex and Relationships
    What do you think of guys who play video games? I'm curious to know.
  5. Sexual Attraction

    Sex and Relationships
    How can you tell if you feel sexual attraction towards someone? To be honest, I'm confused. :confused2: People say that you just *know* if you do, but their descriptions are too vague and it makes me even more confused. Thank you!
  6. How to never have crushes again

    Advice Center
    I'm sick of having crushes. They always hurt me. They never like me back, no matter how much I try. I work really hard, but it never happens to me, and it always happens to everyone else. They don't even try. I'm starting to become frustrated. They always end up finding someone "better" than me...
  7. INFP- Disappointed in self when 'misselling your personality'

    NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    INFP- Disappointed in self!!! Hi I'm new here, although I've been lurking for years! ~INFP~ :love_heart: I was just wondering if you ever feel extremely disappointed in yourself when/if you 'miss-sell your personality'? Like if I do or say (or even buy, or wear, or eat) something that I feel...
  8. What brought u joybeams & peace as a kid? When last have feeling as an adult? How?

    NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    What brought u joybeams & peace as a kid? When last have feeling as an adult? How? You know that peaceful, joyous feeling of childhood play? Lack of inhibitions. Freedom. Excepting those in child-slavery and similarly severe circumstances, even those with the crappiest backgrounds had at...
  9. Flirting... help!

    Sex and Relationships
    Ok so it seems that I've always been single. I've only had 3 short relationships and they each only lasted about 2 months. I tried online dating for 2 years but now I'm fed up with it. I want to meet people in real life, but I lack the skills to engage with people I don't know. Like if I...
  10. How to handle your polar opposite if they're always there?

    Sex and Relationships
    I dont know what to do. I feel like we just won't get along at this point. I still tried hard to be his friend by sparking convos but he would only reply with 2 words. The realistic side of me is just like, it's easy. Just ignore him and don't focus on him in your class but another part of me...
  11. Romantic question for INFPs- can you relate?

    So this is my first post (I just joined about 5 minutes ago :happy:), and I was wondering if any other INFPs experienced this when they are interested in someone. This ESTJ guy and I really like each other, but things are complicated and we cannot date (I won't get into the details, but it is...
  12. [INFP] will i ever feel like that again?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    hi, guys.:tongue: this is my first post on personality cafe so i'll being by introducing myself. i'm a 20 year old female currently at university. about two and a half years ago during my last year at high school i fell in 'love' with one of my friends, i used speech marks because i'm not even...
  13. Lost Boys Characters

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  14. [INFP] Dealing with personal problems...

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hi all my favourite people. So I have a problem with an INFP friend that I think you guys might v able to help with, I need your perspectives :) So I have an INFP friend who is suffering with depression and anxiety. A big issue of hers is emotional detachment. She has a best friend who has...
  15. Girls' personality - fathers' mothers; boys' personality - mothers' fathers?

    General Psychology
    I have a theory that in terms of personality, girls are more similar to their fathers' mothers, while boys are more similar to their mothers' fathers. This comes from personal experience observing people. If you are male, is your personality more similar to your mother's father? If you are...
  16. Fictional role models for NF boys

    NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    Hello fellow NFs! I am having a wee bit trouble trying to find "NFy" rolemodels, superheroes, characters in stories, movies etc. For my 4 year old son. Any of you males and mothers of NF boys care to share your favorites? It would be much appreciated. ;)
  17. [INTP] PORN!! what is it good for ?

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    I was just wondering what type of porn do INTP girls/boys like? Plus is that porn a fantasy that you would want to come true ... or just a fantasy ?