break-up

Knowing a lot about type and a lot about him, I fully expected things were over and done, forever and ever, with my ISTJ ex after we broke up this past fall. I felt he'd wronged me, he felt I'd wronged him. C'est la vie. Then, in January, I had what I guess we can call an attack of conscience...

All of the crazy stuff I'm feeling right now is all in my brain. I've been researching it and living it all at the same time. Last night (night of breakup) I barely got any sleep. I didn't fall asleep till almost 5 in the morning! I kept almost drifting off and then I would remember something...

I wrote about the details of the breakup in an earlier post. It's hard to believe that a relationship that lasted for months could be ended in an hour or less! It was in such an uncomfortable/awkward setting too: out on the street late at night by my car in front of his house in the cold. He...

I need to use this blog to vent and help me get over my recent breakup. I don't have much of a support system irl, so I am going to use this place to dump all of these thoughts and feelings so I can move on! Breakups are hard. Luckily so far this one hasn't been too awful, but I think that has...

I broke it off with my boyfriend of one year yesterday. It is a decision I have thought about for a while, and I thought it was about time. By no means did it end "badly", and he was very understanding as he always is. The reason I decided this was because after some other conflicts, I realized...

My Intp has left me tonight, said he didn't choose yet to be in love. he just doesn't want to talk, and becomes offensive. he said he would spend his life with me just because he likes my company. I feel guilty, I couldn't make him choose me, I failed.

Ok, here's the story. About 2 months ago I began dating an ENFJ female. (I'm female as well, ENFP to clarify). Anyway, things were going great, we were both extremely happy with the relationship and the direction that it was headed. It is very safe to say that our feelings were completely...

Alright... so, I may need your advice on this, because I honestly don't know what to do. There is a lot on my mind, so I apologize for the chaos that is happening in this little story... I'm normally pretty organized with my thoughts. Let's start from the beginning, where it all started. I met...

he still has hope... he didnt listen when i said it was over.... i tried to give him closure but he doesn't want it. he doesnt listen to me i do not lead him on i don't do breakup sex and stuff like that especially not with this guy.......... i am just confused, sad and feel bad i dont wanna...

I really don't know what to do right now. Alright so.. I dated a guy for 10 months 27 days, and he dumped me on the 6th. It hurt like hell, he literally friendzoned me out by telling me he only loved me as a friend. Later he said best friend but we both know that's not true for him (even though...

How do you guys handle break-ups? What are things like between you and the person afterwards? How long til you move on to someone else?

What would/did you do? Me, I just suffered and have no clue what to do. Sneek peek of what I'm in "Let's end our friendship. Forget what happened betweenus. Don't talk to me. Don't get near me. Don't call me anymore." His voicewas shaking. It made me feel so sad. After what he's been through...

This thread is intended for INTP females to respond to: When you break up with people (whichever way that goes), what do the remnants look like? . Are you left in tact, are your ex-partners? (In tact, as in emotionally. Some people react to breakups in extreme ways and lose it or disconnect...

Hello, fellow INFPs. I've been a long-time lurker, but have not been inspired to create an account and post a thread until now. I recently broke up with my ex this past Sunday after finding out about how he had cheated on me three times and had engaged in unprotected sex with God knows who...

Hello! I am trying to get a little insight into how an INTJ would react to a breakup/end of a romantic relationship. Questions: 1. If a romantic relationship ends badly, would it be easy for you cut all ties and never talk to your ex again? 2. What if your ex tried to explain themselves and...

So gents and such...this is my first time really posting so please bear with me... My girlfriend ( INFP ) I realized, just left me for another guy after not talking to me for a good month...sucks but c'est la vie right? I was actually more of a wreck when she wasn't talking but still...