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  1. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    So, just starting this. I have a major problem. I fell out of love with my boyfriend and I don't know what to do. It's not like anything was wrong. I just... don't feel it anymore. And I feel so bad. I fell for him really fast, and my heart fluttered for everything he did, but... omg I feel...
  2. Sex and Relationships
    I'd appreciate it if some of you could answer the following. Whats worse for you, someone breaking up with you, or being broken up with? If you have ever broken up with someone, how did you do it? How did the other person react? What caused the breakup? Dont have to answer all of them but...
  3. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Hey everyone, this is my first post here. Me and my INTP man have been together almost for half a year. We're both very calm and collected, I personally am very logical, but my emotions are very deep as well. With that being said I value only healthy exchanges and run away from toxic...
  4. ESTJ Forum - The Guardians
    Hi all! I'll try to be as brief as possible because I could probably write pages describing the context but nobody would read all that. 8 years together, I'm INTJ, my husband is ESTJ. We had rough couple of years at the start of the relationship (I just slogged through the unhealthy ESTJ...
  5. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hey Ya'll Background info: So like 5 months ago my ex broke up with me during probably the most stressful semester for me. There were family issues, jury duty coming up, don't have a place to live yet for the fall, mid-terms, and depression from all the stress. A week after she broke up with...
  6. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    INFJ 22 yo female here :) Just another one who's fallen for an ENFP lol This is kind of long, so I apologize! SHORT VERSION (but please read the rest if you can!): met an ENFP online. Got pretty close over the course of 6 weeks, but his commitment issues and my relationship anxiety made me...
  7. ENTJ Forum - The Executives
    Relationship question, but I felt it deserved a thread of its own. Pretty straight forward question: Why did you break up with someone? Was it something they said/did? Was it a particular way of being? Values/principles? No future? I thought it would be very interesting to get the input of...
  8. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I am not sure if I am looking for advice or if anyone can relate and give me any. But I hope some other ENFP or INFJ people can look at my story and give me your opinions, whatever they may be. Good or bad, I want them all for the varied viewpoints. I want to understand. Thank you and sorry for...
  9. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I know there's a lot here. But thank you for your insight into the ENFP mind.
  10. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Of course my main question is whether INTPs often do things that they regret, because I'd like to know generally, but I'd also like to know whether it would apply to my situation. I was super close with this INTP for a few months, and I really liked him. We were quite touchy-feely, like we...
  11. INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    I had a friend that I thought I'd someday be sharing a retirement home with completely, irreparably cut me out of her life. I thought I'd eventually get over it, but it's been 5 years now, and I still can't let my guard down enough to make more friends. Getting hit right in the INTJ loyalty is...
  12. Sex and Relationships
    Hey guys, The girl I have been dating for the last 7 months (an ESFJ) broke up with me a week and a half ago. She said it wasn't my fault, that I did nothing wrong. But then I tried to contact her (our) friends to see if she had said anything extra to them (she did tell them a few extra...
  13. ISTJ Forum - The Duty Fulfillers
    This is my first post and I apologize for its length. I’ve long been a reader here and definitely have appreciation for MBTI- I find there to often be a lot of truth in them. I seem to be somewhere between an ESTJ and an ENTJ. I write about my recent breakup with my 24 yr old ISTJ girlfriend...
  14. Intro
    Hey guys! I really would love to hear from some incredible INFP guys. I've only just discovered INFP males and how incredible you are! I never thought men could have such beautiful hearts and such intoxicating depth. I applaud you for being this way so please, do everyone a favour and just do...
  15. ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    My ISFJ ex came back as a friend 3 days after the break up What the fuck does it mean?????? We met online and had a thing which i'm not even sure if I can call it a relationship although we call it that. I saw red flags such as him falling head over heels to me very fast. I ignored it. He has...
  16. ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    Hi, i'm a 30 years old ENFP female. I met my ISFJ guy online, he's 20 years old. Yep, that's a decade age gap. We live in different parts of the world and right now our relationship is in a bit of a pickle, if not on the edge of a cliff. I never have a long distance relationship and it's hard...
  17. ESTJ Forum - The Guardians
    2 weeks ago, my estj boyfriend broke up with me after a HUGE fight, citing the reason that I had hurt him so much throughout the course of the relationship (i tend to say hurtful words during fights) till he can't trust me anymore. he said that he would never get back together with me again...
  18. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    i know a common ENFP stereotype is to move on pretty quickly after a break up, and even date alot without getting very 'emotionally attached' per se for myself, i've only ever had one serious relationship, and nothing else even close to that. i enjoy social gatherings but often feel exhausted...
  19. ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    Hi there, I'm an INFP woman and have been dating an ISFJ man for almost a year. We got along really well and love each other but he is African, Muslim and younger than me and I'm a white, non religious older woman so his family strongly disapproved of our relationship and pressured him to dump...
  20. ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    I dated this INFP for almost two years. We got together before we really ever knew each other over text. Our relationship was awkward for the longest time. It started getting better, be he never did much for me. He would ignore me, and then eventually the problems got worse and we could do...
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