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  1. Myers Briggs Forum
    Hello all, I’m a long time lurker—finally taking the plunge and joining the conversation. I’ve had a former relationship on my mind a lot lately, and I could really use some perspective. Once upon a time, I met an older, INFP man online. We fell hard and fast, and before I knew it I was...
  2. ESFJ Forum - The Caregivers
    I've had a 2-year relationship with an ENFJ and it was, for lack of better term, amazing. He's very caring and generous, very goofy and funny, very smart and great in math (he's an engineering student), loves to joke around but gets serious when needed. He's very emotional and empathetic, loves...
  3. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Hey everyone, this is my first post here. Me and my INTP man have been together almost for half a year. We're both very calm and collected, I personally am very logical, but my emotions are very deep as well. With that being said I value only healthy exchanges and run away from toxic...
  4. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    :hampster: I recently split up with my partner of almost 5 years. It was an opposite's attract scenario (probable ISTP). Five years is a long time. Silly me, I thought we could work through everything and that it would never end. It has been about two months since we broke up. I don't really...
  5. Sex and Relationships
    I'm an ENFP stuck in an emotional rut after a "break-up". I have a pretty long story to tell because I've been through some shit and I need advice from all you INTJs and ENFPs. So I had a crush on this INTJ geek for like 5 months. I always thought it was one-sided and I was pretty much...
  6. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I met my INFJ in March this year. I wasn't too sure about him him in the beginning because I still had feelings for another guy I liked. However we still ended up getting together because this INFJ was so determined he wanted to be with me and wouldn't take no for an answer. He was so different...
  7. Sex and Relationships
    Sometimes it really irritates me whenever people say, "Get over it," to someone. As if people can just get over things whenever someone demands them to. If I was with someone for three years and it ended badly, and just because it was officially over does not mean I would forget about those...
  8. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I was with an ISFP for about a week and a half. When we first met I was in that state of mind where I was just ready to fall in love and I think so were they. It was honestly love at first sight, and everything that they said or did seemed perfect, but after these ten or so days I started to...
  9. ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    I dated this INFP for almost two years. We got together before we really ever knew each other over text. Our relationship was awkward for the longest time. It started getting better, be he never did much for me. He would ignore me, and then eventually the problems got worse and we could do...
  10. ENFP Articles
    Nearly every ENFP who responded to that thread had suffered a hang-up! I think it has to do with our Ne-Fi relationship. Our Fi is regulated by our Ne, so if we fall for someone, we are usually convinced that falling in love was a good idea in the first place. We've already prodded the...
  11. Sex and Relationships
    Society places a lot of importance on having a romantic partner. In movies, the main character has a love interest 90% of the time. People who remain unmarried through their life are "losers" or "weirdos". People tend to think their lives are empty without a significant other. So, for all the...
  12. Advice Center
    Hello PerCaf! My ESFJ boyfriend broke off our one year long relationship. I did some things to hurt him (not cheating, but my trust issues caused problems) and he is also stressed out about exams, so he said he had to end things between us. I'm completely crushed - he was wonderful to spend...
  13. ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    Greetings all, I'm new here and this is my very first post. Although I've stalking and creeping a few threads on this site, I'm just really interested in hearing what everyone thinks, regardless of their type. I know it's a long post but I'd be extremely grateful for your input. My ex I'm...
  14. Blog
    Today I got woken up by my cat at 4:45am :rolleyes:. I had a lot of trouble getting back to sleep. I kept hearing noises in the house and my mind kept going to places it shouldn't. I finally got back to sleep before my alarm went off. My plans for studying got so messed up over the weekend and...
  15. Blog
    I wrote about the details of the breakup in an earlier post. It's hard to believe that a relationship that lasted for months could be ended in an hour or less! It was in such an uncomfortable/awkward setting too: out on the street late at night by my car in front of his house in the cold. He...
  16. INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    I'd like to begin by thanking anyone taking the time to read this. I am an ENFP male who has known an INTJ female for 4 years. We've been best friends since she was 16, dated for a year and she's just turned 20. I believe we admired the typical attributes within each other: her calm, collected...
  17. ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    Hi, guys. I could probably research this on my own, but I'm too lazy. A lot of ISFJs I know (3 out of the 4 in my immediate circle of peers) have trouble letting go of relationships—really unhealthy ones at that. Now, I don't like generalizations, and I don't think letting go of a...
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