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  1. Forced Relationship

    Advice Center
    Took me quite some effort to come here. So, I'm telling a little story. There's this girl, my girlfriend, she's on the 10th grade and I'm on the 11th, she's 15 and I'm 16 (obviously). I think she's an ISFJ. I've never talked with her until the beginning of this year, until this year, I didn't...
  2. [Enneagram Type 4] 4w5s and ending relationships

    Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    4w5s, how do you respond to the end of a love relationship? In the last fortnight I have realised that the person I loved the most is no longer in my life, and will never be. My first reaction is an intense anxiety, as if a part of my self has been pulled away, leaving me crippled and...
  3. [INTP] Breakups, Makeups and Season Change

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    There seem to be lots of breakups or makeups happening around the season change. Has anyone else noticed this? Do you have any theories? It doesn't seem to happen at winter and summer, just at fall and spring.
  4. [INFP] Thoughts On Betrayal, Trust, Ethics, and INFP Relationship Difficulty

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hi Everyone, A four-year relationship with an ISTJ came tumbling down recently. I was so frustrated with her all of the time for invalidating my feelings by lying about and obfuscating what she felt and her intentions. I also found out about a lie she had been maintaining for 18 months. Since...
  5. [ISTP] How do you handle break-ups?

    ISTP Forum - The Mechanics
    How do you guys handle break-ups? What are things like between you and the person afterwards? How long til you move on to someone else?
  6. [ISFJ] Any trouble getting over relationships?

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    Hi, guys. I could probably research this on my own, but I'm too lazy. A lot of ISFJs I know (3 out of the 4 in my immediate circle of peers) have trouble letting go of relationships—really unhealthy ones at that. Now, I don't like generalizations, and I don't think letting go of a...
  7. [ISFJ] Are ISFJs really that bad in relationships?

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    I keep reading all these things about people having difficulty keeping up a relationship with an ISFJ. I can somewhat understand their situations and reasons why their relationship didn't work out but it all makes it seem like ISFJs are inadequate partners because of their lack of communication...
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