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  1. Sex and Relationships
    Hello, I'll try to keep it short, but I dont know how much I will be able. I am a (7?) type. I am not so sure, because I dont feel that much of an energy I read a 7 should have.. but here's a list of attributes of my self: extremely intuitive and versatile very fast learner, but never went deep...
  2. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Here is a good one. I will try to hone in on one situation than connect to many similar on or not so …similar.. this may be hard... ( note: I end up not doing this) Um so I find myself finding solace thinking about someone I am no longer friends with. It was my choice to end it it was based...
  3. Sex and Relationships
    Hello everyone. This is my first post here. I'm not sure where else to go for something like this. I'll try and keep it short. I am a male INTP and my ex is a female INFP. We met around two years ago, online, but only chatted as friends for several months. I expressed my feelings to her...
  4. Type 9 Forum - The Peacemaker
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  5. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    As many of you who are regulars might remember, my INFP girlfriend broke up with me a month ago today. Things have been tough in the time since as she never gave space until I demanded it: sending me heartfelt emails about her struggles with her issues and texting a lot the first couple weeks...
  6. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Hi guys. I am asking this question here because you guys know a lot about other mbtis and would probably provide better judgement. I have been seeing an ENTJ post 3-4 weeks after my previous breakup. We met on an online dating app (guess what it is..lol). He said "I think you're a lovely...
  7. INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Hi everybody This is my first post and my english isn't the best so be gentle :) I have been together with a INTJ for 1,5 year. Im a INFJ. He is 23 and Im 24. Im his first girlfriend. When we met it was just right, we had so much fun and the discussions was endless. We never ever had a boring...
  8. ISFP Forum - The Artists
    Hi - I'm new here, but completely fascinated about personality typing. It has really helped me as I try to navigate online dating after divorce. I met a very nice ISFP man online in May. I am INFJ. We texted for a month. I was into him right away because he was so warm and funny. I even asked...
  9. Blog
    I put this on the INFP confession thread, and I wanted to blog it here: Hey, my boyfriend and I broke up. It's rough because I fell in love with him, and he's the only one that I've ever fallen in love with. Basically, he didn't have enough time for us. He has a lot going on—he is a single...
  10. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Hello! I would appreciate some insight from INTP's or anyone who could help. (Thank you to whoever takes the time to read and respond to this) I'm in a LDR with my boyfriend who is an INTP, and I'm INFP. We have been having some issues lately. He has been less affectionate after being together...
  11. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Hi everyone. INTJ here and I’m looking for advice on my breakup with an INTP. Due to trust issues from my past relationship, there were several situations where my insecurities set in and I accused him of talking to other girls or lying to me (which was not true). A few days ago we had a fight...
  12. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Hi guys, sorry for not posting this in the dating sticky and for the super long post. I'll try to summarize it if possible. I'm really hoping for some advice if there's any you all can offer me, I'd really appreciate it. I'm a 26 year old INFP and been with my INTP boyfriend for 1.5 years now...
  13. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    For a year and a half, I (the ENFP male) was dating an ESFJ (female). I broke it off. However, I've been recently reconsidering getting back together. We recently talked about where we failed each other, could have tried harder, and reflected on what we've learned apart. PROS: we have...
  14. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hey all, So let me start off by giving you all some context. I am a 26-year-old female ENFP who was recently in a Friends with Benefits relationship with an INFJ male (I'm pretty certain he's an INFJ) who is just shy of 19 years old. We were coworkers. We became friends rather quickly due to...
  15. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Okay here's a little background to my situation. I was in my first serious relationship (I'm 28). She lived in Oakland and I lived in LA. We met through My sister and her Wife. After several months of dating I ended up quitting my job in LA because I was pretty miserable. After doing a lot of...
  16. ISTP Forum - The Mechanics
    Hi guys! Basically extremely new to this. But honestly, I don't really know how to cope with my breakup with my ISTP ex-boyfriend. Been 3 months and I'm feeling all that grief, anger, betrayal, denial, depression. Long story short (not that short ugh): we met on a pen-pal website in Nov 2015...
  17. SJ's Temperament Forum- The Overseers
    In a past relationship in high school, I pushed my xSFJ boyfriend to question rules and to attempt to re-negotiate them if they seemed unfair. I just wanted him to talk to his parents more. We regularly had explosive fights, but it wasn't until the end of the relationship that he revealed just...
  18. INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Broke up with ESTJ - Do I go back?!? Background: I'm currently in my early 20s and have shied away from serious relationships (all have usually been casual sexual encounters). I somehow attract attention, but have a very hard time opening up and connecting to people emotionally and mentally...
  19. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    So I've been friends with an ENFP girl for a few years now as I met her at university in one of my classes, we don't hang out that much mostly just exchanging messages over facebook as we're both busy etc. I was always interested in her but she never knew as she was dating someone at the time...
  20. ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    I'm relatively new to PerC and I've spent a lot of time reading. A LOT. Especially along two particular threads: 'The ENTP Gentleman's Field Guide to Seducing INFJ Females' and it's composite thread 'The INFJ Guide to Seducing ENTP Males'. In the past week I've read anywhere between 200-300...
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