breakups

Apologies for the incoherent rant. Head's a bit muddled. I’m just looking to hear from anyone who can relate/has any thoughts on INFP issues. I guess the general theme is relationships, life, pushing yourself etc. I’m a 28 year-old INFP (I think?) guy. I just got out of a four-year...

For a year and a half, I (the ENFP male) was dating an ESFJ (female). I broke it off. However, I've been recently reconsidering getting back together. We recently talked about where we failed each other, could have tried harder, and reflected on what we've learned apart. PROS: we have...

So I'm going through my first breakup since Saturday and it's hell. I'm a bit of a late bloomer when it comes to relationships, but whatever. I'm the one who ended the relationship, because I can't really take care of her anymore because I'm going through some shit. I've been afraid I'm gonna...

I am unsure if I have feelings for my ex gf because of my depression. I am really bad at this stuff and I dont know what to do. I broke up with her in July because I was depressed and unhappy. Shes a great person and she was perfect for me. She didnt do anything wrong. I could have handled the...

Hi ! This is my kinda strange story: I dated an INTP guy for about a year and a half... he was my first relationship and I really fell hard for him so I am kind of hurt. He did not really seem to care as much about me towards the end, however we had formed a deeper connection and within the last...

I have posted this thread also in the INFP forum, however I figured that it makes more sense to post it on here. I met my INFJ in March this year. I wasn't too sure about him him in the beginning because I still had feelings for another guy I liked. However we still ended up getting together...

Hello, I'm new here (INFJ). Don't even know if I'm doing this correctly but anyway, here goes :P So my ex ENFP girlfriend broke up with me about 2 months ago (Dated for 2 months). She broke up with me over a stupid reason (I think so atleast) My question is: How would I go about getting her...

Two months ago a met a guy through online dating. We had spoken the year before, but he met someone and disappeared, and I didn't really feel like we were clicking so I never thought much about it. He showed up a year to the day of our first message and said he had looked through our messages...

I have just had an awful situation involving an ex-boyfriend and 2 dogs. I ended up with the dogs but my ex is crushed and I feel like a horrible person. I would like to hear your opinions. Here's the scoop: J (the ex) moved in with me right after buying a house. One of the big reasons for...

My first post, here goes ^-^ TL;DR --I open up and become a psychologist to girls I'm interested in, and I don't know what to do-- I just want to lay out what I'm doing and maybe get some feedback on what I could do differently, or even just hearing other people's experiences would be...

I was wondering if any of you had any insight into this. I met Perfect S.Oo right before I went off to study abroad for a semester and when I came back my emotions were off the chart (for me) for months. I didn't realize it but I fell "in love" with the perfect SO, completely replan-ed my life...

I broke up with an INTP a couple of months ago. I can't really remember why now because I was really really wrong to break up with him. It felt right at the time, I guess. Anyways, he was my best friend. I decided 10 months into the relationship that we weren't working as a couple though and...

I'd appreciate any book suggestions that might help a 4w5 get through a recent heartbreak. Doesn't have to be self help, just anything. What helped you? I'm realizing how P I am for not thinking to ask this before I came to the bookstore. Actually, I didn't even know why I was at the...

Last night I passed out around 11:30 and slept like a rock all night. I had slightly more of an appetite today. I am trying to go back to sticking to my pescatarian diet. I ran/walked again, although this time it was already dark when I went out. I couldn't see very well most places and got...

People always tell you, especially after a series of relationships and breakup, 'well, it is good for you to be alone'. 'you should be ok being alone', 'this will give you time to find rediscover yourself', 'you need to be ok just being alone and knowing you're awesome' etc. How can one be so...

i will make this very quick, i broke up with my boyfriend because i felt there was too much pressure on me, my parents were fighting my sister moved away, i had my graduation exam that time and a lot of personal problems... and 2 months passed i was ok but now i miss him like crazy... and i...

Prologue: Ha, so I'm still n00b here but I scrolled all the way to the 2nd page of threads and didn't see this so I thought I'd create my very first thread. :laughing: The question is - have you ever been in a great relationship with someone you loved romantically? THEN BROKEN UP WITH THEM? I...

So for about 9 months I've known this INTJ. From the moment of our first meeting we were attracted to each other and our relationship grew rapidly after that. After being "involved" for a couple months, we began an official relationship. Very shortly thereafter however, I ended the relationship...

I am new to this blog...I have been reading it for years to gain insight and feel companionship knowing there are so many people that think just like me out there. I am an INFJ, I have INFP tendencies, mostly due to the fact I am a fairly selfish person...I spend a lot of time making lists and...