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  1. Istp/infj relationship question

    SP's Temperament Forum- The Creators
    Hey, i have à question for istps out there. I'm an infj in a 4 year relationship with an istp. He loves me, but has been unfaithful multiple times. He has come clean, and I have honestly forgiven him, but of course, I have trust issues now. We live in France, and he has announced to me that he...
  2. [ISTP] INFJ having problems with ISTP partner

    ISTP Forum - The Mechanics
    Hi all, I'm an INFJ and have been with my ISTP boyfriend for a year and a half now. Two months into our relationship, he went travelling, and I found out when he got back that he had kissed another girl when he was drunk. He had also been messaging other girls inappropriately. He told me it...
  3. [ISTP] How can I help an ISTP to stop sinning?

    ISTP Forum - The Mechanics
    Hello... I've an ISTP friend, who used to think that it was okay to be single, and with kids. He used to date me for a while, and although he tried to appear proper initially, eventually tried having sex with me. I recently found out that he has been dating his friend's girlfriend in secret...
  4. [INTJ] Opinion on cheating in a relationship

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Fellow INTJs, what are your opinions on cheating? Personally, I think that the most important thing is whether or not it meant anything to the person. I don't get it when people overreact and say that it 'hurts' them. If the thought of the person you love being with someone else disconcerts you...
  5. My values system is crumbling - What NOW?

    Sex and Relationships
    1) Has anyone here undergone a serious blow to the foundation of their values? 1a) And then had to rebuild their values through experimentation and trying new experiences that you completely wrote off as either wrong or not for you? Personally, I'm undergoing an intense tranformation at the...
  6. Something's really off with my parents, please help me

    Advice Center
    Hello, I am 17 years old and my name is Lia. For almost a year now I've been noticing a weird behavior of my dad. I think he might be cheating on my mother but obviously I wouldn't know for sure even though I have some proof and I am an INFJ. Intuition, you know. But I've read a part of a chat...
  7. PerC, I'm turning to all of you for help.

    Sex and Relationships
    (As a type who struggles reading long posts I've created bulletins for you to skip the parts that may seem less interesting. Feel free to jump to 'The Real Situation'.) PerC, I'm turning to all of you for help. I'm in need of some serious guidance. -ISTP Our Background: I'm an ISTP and I...
  8. Relationships? to hell with em, am I overreacting in this circumstance?

    So the girl I was with, I think she has been cheating. Let me explain, She started out as just a roommate, had a room adjacent to me own. I got her the room, she had been a very close friend to me, for over a year. When we became roommates, things changed quickly, and she started sleeping in my...
  9. ENFP female in love with INFP male best friend

    Hey guys! I really would love to hear from some incredible INFP guys. I've only just discovered INFP males and how incredible you are! I never thought men could have such beautiful hearts and such intoxicating depth. I applaud you for being this way so please, do everyone a favour and just do...
  10. Question to ENTJs - can you forgive cheating and what requirements needs to be met?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    I need an input from all the ENTJs that are here: Can you ever, in any circumstanced forgive your partner cheating on you? Would you be willing to continue the relationship if your partner would ensure you it will never happen again? What would convince you they are telling the truth and what...
  11. [ENTJ] You were cheated by your girlfriend/boyfriend, what do you do?

    ENTJ Forum - The Executives
    Hello. I wonder what would you do if you were cheated by your girlfriend or boyfriend.
  12. [INFP] Am I (INFP) being manipulated by my ENTJ friend?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    So! I'm an INFP 21 year old with a very complicated relationship that I don't know what to do with anymore. My friend is an ENTJ with very poor grasp on his Fi function, and he is in a long term relationship with his boyfriend, who is an INTP. My friend met when I was 19 and he was 22, and I was...
  13. White Lies

    Sex and Relationships
    I've noticed that whenever some people find out someone is married, they have a hard time getting over that crush. This always shocks me because as soon as I find out someone is married no matter how upset I was about it, I was always able to say screw him for lying to me for so long. It's a...
  14. I don't understand the cheating at all.

    Sex and Relationships
    A friend of mine's husband recently cheated on her. They had just moved into a brand new home and had a newborn baby seven months ago. They have three kids together and have been with each other since they were 17. He leaves her for an ugly cow who doesn't make a lot and would rather live in a...
  15. [ISFJ] Please help me understand why an ISFJ is cheating

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    I have a question for ISFJ men, please help me! About a month ago, I met an ISFJ guy for a blind date and the attraction was incredible. I asked him if he was genuinely single (had previously asked by email) and he said he was. We met up again and started a sexual relationship. The next day...
  16. [Enneagram Type 7] The mistakes, lessions and thoughts of a former unhealthy 7

    Type 7 Forum - The Enthusiast
    Dear reader, I'm not sure what i want to accomplish with this thread. I guess it's just a way to get my own thoughts on paper. Different sides of the same coin My name is Joris and I'm 23 years old, live in the Netherlands and I am a 7w6 SX. Childhood My childhood was great, always smiling...
  17. [ISTP] please help me understand my istp husband

    ISTP Forum - The Mechanics
    Hey guys, i'm new to both the cafe and this forum. I'm an enfp female who is really hoping some Istp's on here can help me to understand my istp husband. Before I cut to the chase I want to clarify I do not stereotype personalities. That being said, I have been with my Istp husband for 8 years...
  18. Who would Cheat?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    So here's my question: Which type has the most chances to cheat during a test( I am talking about any test)? I am an ENTJ, and I often cheat during test of subjects I don't like or sometimes when I didn't prepare myself well enough. Don't forget to talk about yourself.
  19. Been Cheated On? How Often? Stories?

    Sex and Relationships
    Nearly every woman in my family has been cheated on. My ex-girlfriends too! Luckily I've never experienced it, and I can't even imagine myself ever doing it. This annoys me not only because of the circumstances and the harm it does to loved ones, but it too reflects upon my sex. I get the...
  20. [ENFP] I'm an ENFP with a INFP hiding as a INTJ

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I'm an ENFP -Don't know how to delete, so I'm replacing the text here.