I consider myself as apathetic. I often hear that I'm cold, cynical. :rolleyes::dry:
Well.. hearing other's mocking story annoys me, especially when the person didn't do anything to change their situation.I want to shout : "shut up and think! crying doesn't solve anything!!!"
I don't show...
Am I the only cold INFJ here?
I both dislike insensitive and overly emotional people but I want to understand them deeply so that when they're having a problem (emotionally), I can help them. INFJs are known to be a good adviser/counselor but that's totally not me (but i think im good...
...because I have a mild cold, and I feel like the planet is lonely and that an existential crisis is a-brewin'!
I've been denying myself a blanket for my low-grade fever because I feel that if I acknowledge my illness, I'll be even more miserable! Plus I have to write five more pages of my...
People involved: (No judging :laughing:) Long Post Ahead
Me: Senior, ENTP
The Girl: Sophomore, INFP
The Sister: Freshman, ENFJ
My Friends: Mix of Seniors and Juniors
So I was dating this INFP girl starting last July and we were pretty much going good. There came to a point where we were...
It’s hard to keep a straight face
Hard to keep your shoes laced
The mad rush of engines invading your private space
When that hurricane comes blowin’ in
Rattling your bones and rustling your feathers
You’re an old, old soul and they don’t get you, babe
They’ve got places to go and faces to...
So usually I'm very caring about other people. Heck, once I was IN LOVE with a guy and an acquaintance of mine approached me saying she liked him so I set them up (and it hurt like heck!).
But, I've been finding that people who continually wrong me make me feel really cold. Usually when...
Yesterday, I went to visit my sister who had bought a new TV. She asked me to put it together for her, and as I was starting to put it together, a family friend seemed really interested in doing it herself. She started to micromanage and I gave her all the tools and the manual, and then started...
I'm an ENFP, this ENTJ ended up liking me, he felt rejected so he blocked me on instagram, facebook and whatsapp.
I emailed explaining I do like him. He emailed back, not angry anymore saying he doesn't feel the same way, that he isn't looking for a relationship as yet, that he still needs to...
Hello fellow INFJs,
Have you ever been told that you seem like a rigid, cold, unmoved person? Maybe even arrogant? I am interested especially in the opinions of people who are not extremely close to you. I know that your best friends/family members who truly know you may have a very different...
I'm just about to leave high school, and wondering what I should do with my life (no pressure).
I've always thought teaching would be a good profession- I love working with people, and the thought of being able to affect someone's life for the better sounds amazing. I would probably teach...
So recently, I have been more 'aware' or conscious, you could say, of my cold exterior.
It all started when this guy friend-acquaintance (I say that because I think we're friends but idk we haven't reached that point of what I consider 'actual' friendship) asked if I hate him. I responded with...
How miserable everything feels.
How cold and uncaring everyone is.
How I can't fit into any clothes anymore.
How all I ever want to do is sleep.
How much I hate the booming through the walls.
How fat I've gotten.
How my head hurts.
How I wish I were dead.
Ode to Neptune
Cold, blue, and distant
Isolated and quiet
Serene and tranquil
Away from pother
Hustle, bustle, and bother
Far removed from maggot-infested streets
Where ant colonies conspire to take all the best seats
I walk not on eggshells but on the scrambled embryo within
I gaze around at...
Scrape off the residue
The bits you did not eat
Clinging to the plate for dear life
Reluctant to accept defeat
Our hands met in the depths of dirt
As we polished each other's spoons
Careful to avoid the sinkhole
Our fingertips resurface as prunes
You were the damsel, I was the white knight
I have this INTJ friend who seems to remember his younger self as actually pretty emotional. Even now he finds himself really feeling his rock music, and getting more enthused and emotionally stuck, by a book and a song to go along, then alot of feelers. :rolleyes:
Its interesting, because when...
Okay, I know I JUST POSTED THIS EXACT POST in a thread started here but I was just curious to know if you guys are like this. I had an "Aha!" moment today. I figured something out. I have "layers" kind of like the Earth's crust. Or an onion. Or a couch cushion. Or a flower...