As an ENFJ, I am always going out of my way to help people. Every day I hear my neighbor crying through the paper thin walls... morning, noon, and night. I'm not sure if she would appreciate me coming over to ask her if she's okay or if we happened to bump into each other outside I could ask her...

So, I've been wondering if any other ISTPs have trouble when it comes to comforting people?

Hullo there ESFPs So today I kind of had a, well, talk with an ESFP friend. It started out light but got deeper and ended up with her crying. Basically, I was trying to help and see if she was able to improve on something she didn't think she could improve on. No it wasn't a...

I have a website (wambly.weebly.com) with information on personality theory, and a few weeks ago an INFP wrote to ask for advice on how to ease the sorrow of an ENFJ. I wrote a reply today, a few days after I became aware of the waylaid message, but I wanted to test if it had any value by...

I could never think o an answer for this because you guys are usually so up beat and happy that it usually rubs off on the people around you, but what happens if someone is depressed or sad around you. Do you comfort them, try to snap them out of it by joking around or something, leave because...