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  1. Incapable of commitment, never had a relationship

    Type 7 Forum - The Enthusiast
    Please delete if not allowed. I made a thread in the ISTP topic (Incapable of commitment) and was unsure if posting twice in different groups was allowed. The title is self explanatory. I've never had any sense of commitment or consistency. Nowadays, I can't even hold down friends. Enneagram 7...
  2. [ENTP] My Life Bible. Feeling lost? Maybe you'll find something useful here. Or maybe not.

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    Hello everyone, Brace yourselves. Huge message is coming. If you are an ENTP and you are feeling lost, please give this message a shot. I may come off a bit harsh, however I am always open to criticism. I am an enneagram 8 ENTP, so although I identify a lot with the ENTP description, some...
  3. INTJ woman asking ENTJ men stuff

    Sex and Relationships
    This is a more complex question: Are any ENTJ man - INTJ woman happy couples out there? Are ENTJ men always confident when it comes about relationships, can they be shy or simply afraid of commitment? And if so, why? When do ENTJ men manipulate people, do they manipulate even the people they love?
  4. [ESTJ] When does ESTJ man commit?

    ESTJ Forum - The Guardians
    Hello everyone! I am an INFP female and dating an ESTJ man since about six months. He lives in another country (one hour with airplane away) and we text each other almost every day. We have really good conversations and we can talk about a lot together. We got known to each other because we...
  5. [ENTP] INFx girl pining over an ENTP guy and in need of some advice :(

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    OK so I met this guy that I believe to be an ENTP on Tinder. By the second time we went out for dinner, I felt insane chemistry and connections with him. Then few days after, we ran into each other again at a bar (actually he knew I was gonna be there and told me he and his friends might hit up...
  6. [ISTP] ISTP committed and deeply in love

    ISTP Forum - The Mechanics
    Hello! I would just like to share my experience with a very unusual ISTP. I met him about three years ago and he struck me as a bit off-key, fun, carefree and yet somehow introverted and mysterious. He would make jokes and talk with me, but he was always very calm. He seemed to know his place...
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  8. [ESTJ] Can I trust an ESTJ to fight for me?

    ESTJ Forum - The Guardians
    I'm an ISFJ and an ESTJ man and I are (very) interested in each other. We met three weeks ago at an event and spent hours and hours talking--- one day we talked for seven hours straight in the evening. Friends tell me that he's smitten, and I know I am. We're out of contact right now while my...
  9. How does ENFPs fear of commitment take shape in your lifes?

    Hey guys, I'm kind of at the beginning of a relationship (before the beginning, actually). I've been overanalyzing it too much and the last two hours I suddenly got pretty hysteric about it. Like, my mind completely freaked out. I'm scared of making ANYTHING official of showing there's...
  10. [INFP] INFP & ENFJ relationship: INFPs, what do you need from us?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hey everyone! I've read many forums on this website before, but this is my first time posting! This is bound to be pretty long and it's totally not necessary to read the entire post to answer the question (so please answer whether you read all of it, skim it, or just the question!!), but my...
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  15. [ENTP] Why INFJ and ENTP relationships go wrong

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    I'm relatively new to PerC and I've spent a lot of time reading. A LOT. Especially along two particular threads: 'The ENTP Gentleman's Field Guide to Seducing INFJ Females' and it's composite thread 'The INFJ Guide to Seducing ENTP Males'. In the past week I've read anywhere between 200-300...
  16. [INFJ] INFJ Marriage PerC Encyclopedia

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    INFJ Marriage PerC Questionnaire & Encyclopedia Hi guys , In my search for all INFJ threads related to marriage, I found them lacking in details I wanted to create an encyclopedia on marriage to help other INFJs' curious about everything related to INFJ's and marriage. Love is a perilous...
  17. [INFP] Failing Relationship, Don't Know What To Do

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hi! This is my first *real* post in the forum, and I'm making it because . . . well, I'm so unhappy with my relationship. I've been dating this guy [ISTP] for four months now. Here's the background info: He's 29, an ISTP, and he's had two very bad relationships in the past. The first bad...
  18. Dating and INFP

    NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    Hey, I'm a depressing INFP. I am just out of a semi-almost relationship where I could not decide what I wanted and that drove the guy mad. My emotions have been all over the place but I'm actually rather glad in the end he ended it. I guess you could say self-sabotage as I suppose I didn't...
  19. [ENTP] Maintaining Friendships

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    Alright, this post may be out of frustration, but how well do you maintain your friendships? As in, do you actively put forth effort to get together with people or do they come to you? Furthermore, do you enjoy when friends seek you out? And how much is too much? I'm finding that I am getting...