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  1. Anger and Conflicts cause inner shaking in childhood. Can you relate to this?

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    Anger and Conflicts in my childhood used to make me feel shaken up inside (hidden from them). What Enneatypes experiences this in their childhood. I am a 9w1. I have 8s in my family, so I wonder does that play a role on my being so timid on the inside. I just like exploring this topic.
  2. [ENFP] Dating an ISTP, conflicts? joys?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Hello everyone, I left a hefty (kind of mean cause I was nitpicking my frustrations on parts of his personality) post on the ISTP page about my current ISTP. Let's say, ISTPs are complaining LOL. I've been very frustrated on how to communicate with him effectively and get what I want out of...
  3. Someone who shares you bad traits; how to deal with them?

    General Psychology
    Recently I've found out that people who share my own faults are those who confuse me and upset me the most. I tend to be extra-understanding with them because I know how it feels like to endure the negative feedback of that particular mistake you don't know you constantly do. But then my...
  4. [Enneagram Type 8] Suddently ready for battle when a conflict arises

    Type 8 Forum - The Challenger
    How do you feel? Do you get an adrenaline rush? When I was younger I always got angsty and started to calculate my escape from this unpleasant feeling. Now as I am older and have a lot more confidence and physical/mental strength these conflicts starts to intrigue me. By old habit I have...
  5. AmeriCorps Hoopa TCCC Living With The People You Work With Under One Roof

    Education & Career Talk
    These questions are for those who have ever lived with roommates in any AmeriCorps program: I've been accepted into AmeriCorps Hoopa TCCC program: it's a residential program similar to the AmeriCorps NCCC program, but it's located on Hoopa Indian Native American Reservation in Northern...
  6. [INFP] Is a Friendship with an INTP possible?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I got close to this really cool guy and we became best friends but eventually we started arguing over stuff that seemed really stupid to me and he sometimes said really straightforward things that hurt me a lot. Then i felt hurt and he got mad at me for being too sensitive and was like "Honesty...
  7. [INTJ] My foolish break-up story

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    I broke it off with my boyfriend of one year yesterday. It is a decision I have thought about for a while, and I thought it was about time. By no means did it end "badly", and he was very understanding as he always is. The reason I decided this was because after some other conflicts, I realized...
  8. [Enneagram Type 6] 6w5 - do you experience conflicting emotions?

    Type 6 Forum - The Loyalist
    I just learned recently that I am a 6w5 and for me this was an eye-opener. I've never heard of enneagrams before. I knew that I am an ISTJ, but the Myers-Briggs type indicator never really helped me figure out myself, my motives and my actions. I've tested a lot through different test and each...
  9. [Enneagram Type 1] A Question for ONES Only!

    Type 1 Forum - The Reformer
    If you are a ONE, I would like to know about your experiences, if any, with type SIX personalities. I am type SIX and it seems to me that I have an especially hard time getting along with type ONE personalities. I can be civil with them, but to have any kind of in depth relationship is always a...
  10. [INFJ] Why do INFJs hate conflicts?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Maybe there has been smiliar threads about this. But anyway, why do INFJs hate conflicts so much? I talked to one of friends yesterday (I think he is ExTx), and I mentioned how much I hate conflicts. He then said that he actually likes conflicts. So that made me thinking what the reasons are...
  11. [INTJ] INTJ child with an ESFJ/ENFJ mother

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Hi! I have open this thread because I want to know how can an INTJ deal with an ESFJ/ENFJ parent or with a person with this type. My mother took the test some months ago and in revealed that she was an ENFJ. Actually, I tend to think that she is more ESFJ or she didn't develop her N. Her result...
  12. [ISFJ] Nationality and value conflict

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    How to deal with immaturity and conflict in values Overview of the situation is that we've formed committees in our university for different nationalities. My country's committee is working closely with one of the other nation's, however i can see conflicts start to arise...