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  1. Type 9 Forum - The Peacemaker
    I am curious how type 9s have been reacting to the coronavirus pandemic. Everything I've read (which, granted, is very meme-y and didn't contain much nuance) made it sound like nines would all be numbed out and ignoring the situation. To be honest, I would love to have that reaction right now. I...
  2. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    It is so hard to find a deep connection to another person. Yet I feel that is part of who we are as humanity. It is why we sing in choirs or play in a band, making music together as many becoming one voice and existing in balance and harmony. It is how the sum of the parts become greater than...
  3. Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    Or both? I'm still new to learning about the Enneagram, so I'd imagine that it says something about how our perceived isolation leads to further isolation. But I am hearing that almost everyone I know is perceiving themselves as isolated these days. I do live in the Pacific NW, and from what...
  4. INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    INTJ's what constitutes a "connection" for you? How do you know you have chemistry? My fellow INTJ's what constitutes a "connection" for you? How do you know you have chemistry with someone & are clicking or hitting it off with them? Please describe your experience with either a platonic, or...
  5. Intro
    Hello everyone, I can give you a bit about me. I was here a little while back, forgot account, but didn't post too much. I was having trouble with a separation, it was breaking my heart, and looked for a bit of respite among, perhaps some like minded personalities. Going through it now, finally...
  6. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Dear wonderful ENFPs, I was so lucky/unlucky to fall for one of you against my better judgement. What a great connection and ease of communication, honesty, trust, understanding and free flow of jokes. We live far apart and he is in a relationship for the last few months. I would never want to...
  7. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    I apologise if this has been discussed before any time in the recent past. This question has just occurred to me while reading posts in other unrelated threads. I am someone who, since maybe middle school, seems to have a general preference for older people as conversation partners, especially...
  8. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    So I´m new in this site, and I´m curious if anyone else has issues with connecting with their parents. I listen to my friends when they talk about their parents and most of them have good relationships. Of course, they´re always issues, but I personally don´t feel a strong connection with my...
  9. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I'm trying to make sense of things that happened to me yesterday and I'm still processing, but I thought it would be useful to process some of it "externally" here. We use Ne to find hidden patterns and connections, and see possibilities/potentials. We engage it through observation and...
  10. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    INFJ in need of help - Does this ENFP guy like me? (also how to not scare him off?) INFJ here. I met someone who I'm pretty sure is an ENFP (its the only Extroverted personality type I attract really) and he and I had an insane connection with an even more insane amount of chemistry. Or so it...
  11. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    For a year and a half, I (the ENFP male) was dating an ESFJ (female). I broke it off. However, I've been recently reconsidering getting back together. We recently talked about where we failed each other, could have tried harder, and reflected on what we've learned apart. PROS: we have...
  12. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Extroverted Feeling is suppose to be a high leverage area of personal development for the INFJ. From what I have been able to read up on the subject it is the key to happiness for the INFJ because it provides interpersonal connection and can lead to accomplishment in the outside world...
  13. Sex and Relationships
    During my senior year, I went to technical school with someone who I have not spoken to or have had any classes with. One day when we were waiting for the bell to ring, I saw her looking over at me for a few seconds. I was sitting at a table with some people, she was standing with someone - we...
  14. Blog
    [From the "INFP Stream of Consciousness/Vent Thread"...] * Last night I had a dream about being in an airport or train station, carrying a girl by piggyback as we looked for her friends... She looked the exact same way she did 4-6 years ago, which was probably the last time I saw her. Though as...
  15. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Has anyone ever felt a connection, where your soul constantly has to be around their soul? Like you are constantly pulled towards them and YOU WANT to know everything about them? You barely know them, yet you care about them more than anyone else? You're so magnetically drawn to them, that your...
  16. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I've been noticing for the past few years that when I have friends that I love, I LOVE them. Like, a lot. I was wondering if these feelings might be romantic and/or sexual and was thinking for awhile that I may be bisexual, but I realized after spending time with my good friend this week that...
  17. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I've seen one too many topics about this. The fact of the matter is, YES, I am drawn to an INTJ. Not infatuation, love, or lust (okay maybe just a little). Just this strange, unexplainable "magnetic attraction" as some would say. I try to explain it the best I can but just can't quite wrap my...
  18. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hi everyone, Just looking for other peoples experiences with INFP-INFP friendships. I've never been close with another INFP, but it seems like there's potential for a deep understanding/connection.
  19. ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    Anyone ever have a perplexing psychic connection with another type?? I am aware of the ENTP/INFJ dynamic however i feel as though I have transcended to an even higher level of connection with this one ENTP... if that is even possible. I don't even believe in "psychic" connections but I am really...
  20. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hey INFJ's, you beautiful people that you are. We are emotional creatures and I don't know about you guys, but I find a certain beauty in sadness. I'm drawn to it, like I'm drawn to deep anger, hurt and betrayal as an artistic form. I like to empathise with it, understand it and feel it. I...
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