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I've read that some types are well liked while others are super hard to connect to(mine falling into that category). Which one are hard for you guys to talk to?

I've noticed over the last year or three that when the time comes to end a phone call I'm almost always the first to say goodbye. I could be talking to a customer service rep, or somebody I've known for years-it doesn't matter. I'm always the first to say it, and then the other person seems...

Hello. I'm new to this forum. I'm interested in meeting other personality types, I'm INFJ and I hope to and share conversation with whoever would like the same. My intro will be short I'm rather reserved in the beginning. I suck at small talk. And it is not easy for me to just start talking...

Ok, without really getting into it here, I'm trying to be more social, but I'm a HUGE introvert. I also don't think it helps that although I work in the creative department shall we say, of my company, I'm often doing work and installations in the view of customers and therefore am constantly...

What are the best subjects to talk with SJs? I have a big problem to talk about something interesting with SJs - maybe it's because every SJ I know is only talking about daily life and it's so annoying for me.

So recently I found myself in the middle of a an argument, or at least what I would consider an argument, when originally all I wanted was to have a friendly conversation and explain a certain point of view I had on honestly a very trivial matter. However the friend I was speaking with only...

It's always a fun time conversing with my ISFJ mother. I sent her a picture of myself over the weekend, and when I came home she immediately asked 'Who were you with?' Not even a 'You looked nice!' :laughing: She likes to know who I'm with, what time of day it was, all the little details. We...

How can I express the amount of hopelessness that permeates around me? Every day, I have to watch and listen to people needlessly suffering from things that have little to no lasting value. Perhaps it is presumptuous of me to project my values upon others, but it has become increasingly...

Hi guys, I've been talking to someone I'm really interested in, who's expressed interest in me, and it's been an every day thing. We mostly just update each other on things that happen throughout the day but we'll trade stories about our lives and just whatever we're thinking about too along...

^ This is a link to a brief talk by Michael Pierce about why some people struggle to type themselves. I think as an INTJ (or whatever fckn type I am), subjective confirmation of type is partially acceptable and partially... not inevitable enough. Pierce's discussion of how different functions...

Hi dear Members, especially ISFJs I'm a newbie, both at the Cafe and mbti. It has been a couple of weeks I learned about the 16 personalities and eversince have thrown myself into the subject. After a 5 year long relationship with my dear ISFJ there is still a lot to learn and the pieces are...

Just curious, am I the only introvert out here who prefers to be in a group setting vs one on one with a friend? I find there is less pressure for me to come up with conversation, and I feel more comfortable chiming in and bouncing off other people. When it's one on one I don't always have...

I'm not talking about passing the time chit-chatting, i mean doing fun activities and having good discussions. I posted this because for some reason i always get along very well with ENTPs. Probably not all of you will appreciate us ESTPs as much, but i'd like to know what you think of /how you...

Hi everyone, I've studied MBTI in my free time for about 7 years now, and I got really confused by the cognitive functions, which lead me down a whole thought process where I typed myself as INFJ but it never felt right. I don't want to tell you a whole long story, my main reason for this post...

I have imaginary conversations with people to prepare for actual conversations with people.

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Hello guys, I really hope, that you could help me with my problem. I don't know why, but I can't stop thinking about this. I don't get this ENFJ. We barely know each other. We have never been friends. We never had a lot of contact. We only had one really good conversation. But it's been more...

I've recently been learning more about trans people after making friends with someone online, and I want to understand more about what's OK to talk about with someone that's trans. For example, is it OK to ask when they felt the need to transition? Is it OK to ask why they felt that their...

I am currently in a "relationship" with an INFP and I must say it is insanely frustrating. I'll admit type probably has something to do with it, but I genuinely am always like this when I am in relationships. I find it much easier to be single and focus on things I love or have flings than to...