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  1. [ENFP] INFJ looking for ENFP pen pals

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Ok, without really getting into it here, I'm trying to be more social, but I'm a HUGE introvert. I also don't think it helps that although I work in the creative department shall we say, of my company, I'm often doing work and installations in the view of customers and therefore am constantly...
  2. What are the best subjects to talk with SJs?

    SJ's Temperament Forum- The Overseers
    What are the best subjects to talk with SJs? I have a big problem to talk about something interesting with SJs - maybe it's because every SJ I know is only talking about daily life and it's so annoying for me.
  3. What actually is a conversation anyway?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    So recently I found myself in the middle of a an argument, or at least what I would consider an argument, when originally all I wanted was to have a friendly conversation and explain a certain point of view I had on honestly a very trivial matter. However the friend I was speaking with only...
  4. [INFP] Conversation Goals

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    It's always a fun time conversing with my ISFJ mother. I sent her a picture of myself over the weekend, and when I came home she immediately asked 'Who were you with?' Not even a 'You looked nice!' :laughing: She likes to know who I'm with, what time of day it was, all the little details. We...
  5. A Young Romantic - INFP

    How can I express the amount of hopelessness that permeates around me? Every day, I have to watch and listen to people needlessly suffering from things that have little to no lasting value. Perhaps it is presumptuous of me to project my values upon others, but it has become increasingly...
  6. [INFP] Advice for long-distance relationship?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hi guys, I've been talking to someone I'm really interested in, who's expressed interest in me, and it's been an every day thing. We mostly just update each other on things that happen throughout the day but we'll trade stories about our lives and just whatever we're thinking about too along...
  7. Subjectivity of Psychological Science & and Type Searching

    Myers Briggs Forum
    ^ This is a link to a brief talk by Michael Pierce about why some people struggle to type themselves. I think as an INTJ (or whatever fckn type I am), subjective confirmation of type is partially acceptable and partially... not inevitable enough. Pierce's discussion of how different functions...
  8. [ISFJ] ISFJ ENFP communication

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    Hi dear Members, especially ISFJs I'm a newbie, both at the Cafe and mbti. It has been a couple of weeks I learned about the 16 personalities and eversince have thrown myself into the subject. After a 5 year long relationship with my dear ISFJ there is still a lot to learn and the pieces are...
  9. Introvert - Group Setting vs One on One

    Myers Briggs Forum
    Just curious, am I the only introvert out here who prefers to be in a group setting vs one on one with a friend? I find there is less pressure for me to come up with conversation, and I feel more comfortable chiming in and bouncing off other people. When it's one on one I don't always have...
  10. [ENTP] Which types can you actually get along with?

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    I'm not talking about passing the time chit-chatting, i mean doing fun activities and having good discussions. I posted this because for some reason i always get along very well with ENTPs. Probably not all of you will appreciate us ESTPs as much, but i'd like to know what you think of /how you...
  11. [INFP] Are we the same type? Why can't I relate to her?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hi everyone, I've studied MBTI in my free time for about 7 years now, and I got really confused by the cognitive functions, which lead me down a whole thought process where I typed myself as INFJ but it never felt right. I don't want to tell you a whole long story, my main reason for this post...
  12. [INFJ] Conversations

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I have imaginary conversations with people to prepare for actual conversations with people.
  13. [INFP] Yeeee Yoooo Guys. I WANT TO TALK <3

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    new here :happy:
  14. Why do ENFJ's keep in touch with people they kinda don't like

    Myers Briggs Forum
    Hello guys, I really hope, that you could help me with my problem. I don't know why, but I can't stop thinking about this. I don't get this ENFJ. We barely know each other. We have never been friends. We never had a lot of contact. We only had one really good conversation. But it's been more...
  15. Things you shouldn't ask or discuss with a trans person?

    Advice Center
    I've recently been learning more about trans people after making friends with someone online, and I want to understand more about what's OK to talk about with someone that's trans. For example, is it OK to ask when they felt the need to transition? Is it OK to ask why they felt that their...
  16. [ENTP] Control in a relationship for ENTPs?

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    I am currently in a "relationship" with an INFP and I must say it is insanely frustrating. I'll admit type probably has something to do with it, but I genuinely am always like this when I am in relationships. I find it much easier to be single and focus on things I love or have flings than to...
  17. [ISTJ] Should I be afraid for my life?

    ISTJ Forum - The Duty Fulfillers
    Hi, ESFP here. I just made an ISTJ think I over heard a conversation that I wasn't suppose to over hear. Should I be afraid for my life and what future precautions should I take when I am around said ISTJ?
  18. [ISTJ] Need help in starting a conversation with a ISTJ girl

    ISTJ Forum - The Duty Fulfillers
    How would you want someone to approach you? How do I start a conversation with an ISTJ? I asked questions like, 1) "What do you do over the weekend?" She replied, "She didn't do much." 2) "What do you do for your free time?" She responded, "It just usually work or run family errands." 3) Do...
  19. [INTJ] Did I screw up my chances?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Here's our text conversation: Me: Hey, since you're the editor, I thought that you'd be able to give me some constructive advice on an article I wrote for the June edition. It's on Marxism. Would you mind giving it a read? I'm struggling to write a conclusion. Him: sure, just send it over...
  20. [ISTP] What makes a conversation good for an ISTP?

    ISTP Forum - The Mechanics
    What kinds of conversations do you enjoy the most? Edit: A lot of the replies seem to say the shorter the conversation, the better... That's good to know, but could you imagine any kind of conversation that you'd enjoy enough to want it to go on? :)