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  2. [ENFP] ENFP dating an ESFJ. HELP ! CRAZY?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    For a year and a half, I (the ENFP male) was dating an ESFJ (female). I broke it off. However, I've been recently reconsidering getting back together. We recently talked about where we failed each other, could have tried harder, and reflected on what we've learned apart. PROS: we have...
  3. [INFJ] Emotional Self Neglect - selflessness

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    My counselor tells me that I need to be more selfish and in turn manipulative in relationships overall. This is due to my approach of taking other people's needs and concerns and giving them more precedent and care than my own. I reflect, think through, and make decisions entirely on the...
  4. [INFJ] Do you give a lot of advice to/counsel family members?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Reading through a few threads this seemed to be pretty much the norm for INFJs. I never really gave advice to my family growing up, mostly because I'm perceived to be the one who needs help in life. I tend to give advice to my friends, but I usually hold back from saying anything that's not...
  5. [INFJ] do you do couseling?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    So, i was wandering if anyone could give some ideas here: I am an infj girl 23yrs, going through education right now. i want to pursue a carreer in design and also soon have a degree in art history. i feel that this is what i mainly want to do for a living RIGHT NOW, but something is telling me...
  6. [INFP] INFP's and counseling

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I have been to a couple counselors I'm my life and enjoyed being able to talks about my never ending intuitive ideas and life. The problem is I've never felt like I made any personal progress when talking to a counselor. Are there any INFP's out there that have benefited from counseling or are...
  7. Here's A Little Guidance.

    "Let it go, it is not a sin to fight for the right cause. There are those who words alone will not reach." "You are gentle, you do not like to hurt, I know because I, too, have learned these feelings. But it is because you cherish life that you must protect it." "Please, drop your...
  8. Fantastic Reminder

    NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    Check out this PDF about MBTI on a website of a counselor: So much is covered in such a nice and succinct format!!
  9. Fantastic!!

  10. [INFP] Are you the token Therapist/Philosopher?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I have noticed that people within my sphere of influence (friends, family, co-workers) tend to come to me with their problems, looking for comfort, support, a listening ear, and serious conversation before they turn to anyone else, including their own families and spouses. I recieved a phone...
  11. [INFP] To all counselors/psychologists..

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hey everyone, I've recently joined this forum and the posts related to psychology-related careers really helped and resonated with me. I'm currently pursuing a Bachelor's Degree in Psychology and planning on becoming a clinical psychologist. But, for the moment, I have my doubts about whether...
  12. Struggling...

    Even though life feels much better, there's something I just lately had to cope with. Maybe some of you are familiar with situations where you're counseling someone, get too comfortable with that person and that person with you, and at some point you fall in love? Well, that is what exactly...
  13. [INFJ] Career Questions (Please Help!)

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I am currently in college and have discovered that the major I thought would be perfect for me really isn't. Now I'm looking into computer science and helping/counseling professions. Computer science appeals to me for lots of reasons, but I worry that I won't enjoy it after a while. I have more...
  14. Grasshopper

    Career Counselling on Friday the 13th. *Cue doom music.* So... what did I learn today? I learned yet another way to say I'm "a little eccentric" or "kind of a spaz." In Brit-speak I am: "a bit of a grasshopper." Cute :happy: Note: "Spaz" is not PC in GB. Has to do with Cerebral Palsy