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  1. [ENTP] I Want To Punch Myself In The Face!

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    Hello, I'm an INFP visiting this realm of ENTP in search of advice and insight... Here's the story: There's this guy I've known for a couple years who I'm pretty sure is an ENTP - we go to school together and have same major. It's an acquaintance level relationship. I'd never EVER considered...
  2. [INFP] Infatuation <3 <3

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I thought that I would never again experience the maddening, sickening infatuation for somebody that I did as a growing teenager. But then I randomly got it as an adult like a dynamite explosion in my stomach! After I was coming out of a long relationship, I became infatuated with someone after...
  3. Who Is Usually Attracted To The Other First In ENFP and INTJ Relationships?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    Just wondering because this pairing holds quite opposite characteristics yet whilst there is still potential for conflict, they compliment each other well. But I can't tell who is the first to take the compliment if you catch me drift.
  4. How to never have crushes again

    Advice Center
    I'm sick of having crushes. They always hurt me. They never like me back, no matter how much I try. I work really hard, but it never happens to me, and it always happens to everyone else. They don't even try. I'm starting to become frustrated. They always end up finding someone "better" than me...
  5. Is this INFJ interested?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    I've been interested romantically in a very close guy friend of mine who is an INFJ (I'm an INFP.) I feel like he might be interested in me, but he's very difficult to read (as most INFJs are from what I hear.) He sits by me a lot and seems to be physically near me often, and he's been making...
  6. [INTP] Crushes for INTPs?

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    I know usually us INTPs would scoff at the idea at something so superficial, but even with our strictly logical disposition, there always is something that can break this deep down inside and leave us just admiring the attractiveness of another person. Perhaps maybe the reason why many of us...
  7. [INTJ] (INTJ) How do you react when someone has a crush on you?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Do you observe them more? Talk to them more? Stare at them? Do you think about that person? Become uncomfortable? I'm an INTJ too. Was just wondering.
  8. ENTP Crush oddities

    As an absolute newbie to this site, I must say I absolutely adore how they have an "asexual" sexual preference. That's so cool :laughing:. Anyway, I recently figured out I'm ENTP, despite previously thinking of being INTJ. Maybe it will help thou who dares to read this a bit better :kitteh...
  9. [INTJ] Most likely to have a crush on the INTJ (by type)

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Which type usually respects the INTJ /finds the INTJ interesting? Which type doesn't usually like the innate traits that come along with the INTJ?
  10. Attracting an INFJ male

    Advice Center
    I'm got my eye on an INFJ male (I found the unicorn, guys!) and I'm trying to get him to ask me out. I'm an INFJ female and I've been thinking that maybe I should do what I would like done towards me if a man liked me. The hold up is twofold. First, he's a man so there would be some differences...
  11. [ENFJ] ENFJ's and crushes

    ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    I'm an ISTP female and I have a crush on an ENFJ male. What ways do ENFJ's show that they like you?. I think ENFJ's would dislike ISTP's because of their cold-heartedness but I've also read some good things about their qualities mixing well together. What do you guys think?. Are ISTP's...
  12. I think i scared my crush away . :/

    Sex and Relationships
    Hey Guys ! I was talking to my crush and it seems like it all went well ( we even told each other we like each other already) until i told him that i miss him ( cause at the moment he's away in another country for work )and i do miss him ( both as a friend and as him as a person) and he freaked...
  13. [INFP] INFPs, how old were you when you had your first serious crush?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    At what age did you have that first special crush that really made you feel alive? ;-)
  14. [ISFJ] I like this ISFJ and I want to "woo" Her but I'm not sure I know how??? HELP ME

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    How Do I woo an ISFJ as an ENFJ??? HELP ME So I met her a couple months ago. We made fast friends by bonding over Sense8 and Korrasami and Harry Potter and etc.... We're both girls. We're both bi. She got out of a relationship a while back but isn't over that person, but she wants to be and...
  15. [ISFP] When do you know whether an ISFP is interested in you or not?

    ISFP Forum - The Artists
    So recently I've been crushing hard on this ISFP. She has shown some (?) signs that she's interested, at least from what I can tell. I really haven't been that adept with interpreting social cues to be honest. :rolleyes: The thing is, I can't tell whether she's being friendly or not. She...
  16. [INFP] Romantic Intuitions!

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    How often do you have a strong intuition that another person likes you? In particular, do you believe that your intuition about mutual interest/attraction in fairly accurate? Of all my strong intuitions, I question romantic ones the most, because I am wary of projecting what I hope to be true...
  17. Flirting... help!

    Sex and Relationships
    Ok so it seems that I've always been single. I've only had 3 short relationships and they each only lasted about 2 months. I tried online dating for 2 years but now I'm fed up with it. I want to meet people in real life, but I lack the skills to engage with people I don't know. Like if I...
  18. [ISFJ] What attracts you to a person?

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    I'm attracted in a strange way to other people, and I'm wondering if any ISFJs are the same way. I'm attracted mostly to the way people act. Like in the way they walk, and the way they laugh, and the way they look at things or the way they touch things. Maybe it's a super Si thing... I don't...
  19. Not having crushes?

    Sex and Relationships
    So I'll try and keep this as brief as possible. :kitteh: Basically, I don't seem to have proper crushes (or whatever it's called when people randomly feel gooey about other people), and I was wondering if anyone else was similar or the same. To be more specific, I can sometimes feel a bit...
  20. dating advice for a silly girl :)

    Sex and Relationships
    Hello! I feel a little weird talking about this, because i feel i'm a little too old (23) to be asking this kind of questions, but this subject is really important to me right now. So, my question is: should i friend request this guys to whom i have talked in real life a couple of time? I know...