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  1. What romantic rendezvous did you enjoy most with your wife or date? what happened?

    Sex and Relationships
    What romantic rendezvous did you enjoy most with your wife or date? What happened, when? What did you/he/she plan or do all along to make it great? What to do to recall the experience (souvenirs, photos, video, notes)? Rendezvous: a meeting at an agreed time and place.
  2. [ENFP] ENFP dating an ESFJ. HELP ! CRAZY?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    For a year and a half, I (the ENFP male) was dating an ESFJ (female). I broke it off. However, I've been recently reconsidering getting back together. We recently talked about where we failed each other, could have tried harder, and reflected on what we've learned apart. PROS: we have...
  3. [ISFJ] INTJ woman dating ISFJ man - can you help?

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    I’m an INTJ female dating an ISFJ man I met on a dating app in mid-April….and would like to get your advice on whether there is any hope for our relationship, which has already hit rocky spots, if I should stick it out and how I can better support him without losing myself…. Week 1: Tuesday...
  4. [INFP] INFP dating mysterious INFP...decryption help?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I got my first excuse to really talk to this girl when I guessed her personality type, last Thursday. I was in her art studio, and I got a look at her existentialist crow paintings and said, "You're an INFP, right?", to which to she replied yes, reluctantly, as we INFPs do. We seemed to hit it...
  5. [INTJ] [INTJ] The Dating World

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    How would you define it? Have you had a date? What was it like? Anyone can join this convo. INTJs can talk about their dating experiences and non-INTJs can talk about what it has been like to date an INTJ. I would love to read all your thoughts on this subject. This is a topic which is quite...
  6. [INTJ] [INTJ] What types relationships do INTJs prefer? (Long-Term, Short-Term, One-Night)

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    What types relationships do other INTJs prefer? Do you prefer interacting with others in long-term, short-term, one-night stands, pure platonic friendships, non-platonic friendships, or something else? I prefer the term "one-life stand" for myself. I have no interest in short-term...
  7. [INFJ] Why intelligent, and attractive INFJ men don't end up on dates. ( No Restrictions)

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Whenever a women likes me, I get the same question, like I'm playing a record player that got scratched in heated rage: how can no one like you!? Well I will tell you! I saw a similar post on here, about an INFJ women who was wondering how her new INFJ bf had never been on a date/had a...
  8. [INFP] Where to find NFs & NTs??! :D

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    So I wanted to start a list of high frequency locations of NFs and NTs (because we like to hide from each other). :laughing: Here is a list based on my experiences: NF ENFP – salsa, dancing, rock climbing, cafes, art galleries, clubs, parties, hanging out at friend’s places INFP – artistic...
  9. [INFP] Starting Relationships, especially for INFP men.

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I suppose the first rule is just to meet more people, which I've been really working on (especially my shyness) and then asking to hang out with people you're interested in (which again I am working on), but are there other tips that INFP males could share? At the end of the day, I want to find...
  10. For Those of You Christians Who Have Recognized the Pitfalls of Modern Dating...

    I highly recommend Joshua Harris' book I Kissed Dating Goodbye. And no, I'm not doing this to get paid or for any benefits whatsoever. I just really, really loved this book and it opened my eyes to a lot of flaws in dating. Yeah, I was sort of already against dating at least while kids are...
  11. [INFJ] Any advice on what to do?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    So, there's a lot to explain. Let me start out with some basics. I'm 18 and he's 25. He moved to my city after college. I'm an INFJ. I'm guessing he's an ENFP from everything I've observed so far. I met him online and we've been talking for over a month. Sort of important: when we first talked...
  12. Blind Dates

    Sex and Relationships
    I'm starting to get really, really nervous. A coworker set me up with a guy she knows tonight. Thankfully it's more of a group setting than just the two of us, or even just a double date. This will actually be the first blind date I've been on in a long time... Or well... blind meeting in this...
  13. Fun Dates for ENFPs

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I have a date coming up with an ENFP (which is what I am, too): What do you guys think would be some fun non-traditional things to do? We're both 21 (I don't mean to suggest anything, but I felt it was pertinent).